My bf and I just moved in together and he had more kitchen equipment than me, but now he micromanages how I use his stuff. Should we just go buy new things instead of combining them??

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I don’t think you need to buy new stuff. I think this is just part of the transition period. You should have a loving conversation about how it makes you feel when he does that and come up with a joint plan for how to transition “his” stuff to “our” stuff.

There’s no kitchen appliance that is so important that it needs to be micromanaged LOL.

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Agree - should be a conversation about what’s important to you both for the household. It’s important to me that the good knives don’t go in the dishwasher. It’s important to my husband how the dishwasher is loaded. So we made adjustments to make the other happy for things we don’t feel as strongly about.

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