My boss the general manager is setting me up at work. She is saying all this stuff about me that is not true at all. But when I come into her shift or come into my shift after hers nothing is done for me. A lot of the prep is not done. And she complains about me not doing the prep. Stuff Is still dirty. One day she left the grill on. Etc. There was another manager there training to run another store and she said I basically do a lot of the work while she doesn't do much. So she stood up for me.

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Personally it sounds like you’re boss used to have an assistant who would put up with all of that previously and expects the same from you.
Always ask for what you deserve.
Also, start taking pictures. GMs can’t hide behind words when there are photos for proof.
Tell the owner why you’re a profit maker for That company and that GM is not

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Sometimes it's not possible to make sense of other people's actions, no point in wasting energy trying to decipher them. Best you can do is accept that they're just not good people to work with and if it's really that insufferable you might want to consider applying for a job somewhere else

What should I do about it? The owner talked to me about it and we were both confused about everything. She said a lot of lies that were not true. I'll go work at another location and everyone likes me. So I'm confused

Some people get off on playing weird mind games and abusing their authority. If someone like that is in charge that would be a huge red flag for me and I'd try to get out but I know that's not always an option available to us.

Yeah I've worked with people like that in the past. Gaslighting and trying to embarrass you in front of other employees for zero reason. Just a toxic work environment if you ask me, do you have any other job option available?

So I talked to the owner and he wants to investigate everything. If he believes them and they keep lying then I will be fired. But for now I'm getting transferred apparently. I requested not to work with her anymore

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