My boss was gone on holiday and on the first day as a stand in my body decided to miscarriage. I was only 7 weeks in but the pain and blood was unreal.
Felt I couldn't take a sick leave.
I am now scared to get pregnant again.

What are ways to deal with high latency mricroservice in a given region. Given that it's Cpu utilization is not exhausted.. So no vertical scaling ???

One time I was SO wasted at my now exes family’s big xmas party... when it was over everyone went to bed or home, I had to pee so bad but I was too drunk to remember where the bathroom is so I opened a door and it had a small space inside and I just went in the dark

The next morning it turns out that someone peed in the closet inside of his mom’s purse where she had her now damaged passport and documents. She was furious and the family was shocked, I had no idea how to tell them so I didn’t...

Partners: what would you think if a first year associate tells you she is pregnant? And what advise would you give about telling my partners? It was totally unplanned so now I am scared that this may hurt my career and I would be seen as not being committed to the job. This will be my second kid but we had our first while I was in law school. Most of the partners I am working with have at least two kids but also they are men. No female associates with kids in my office.

Anyone going to MDRT ?

Just got back from an 8 week scan and there was no heartbeat. Second pregnancy in a row. Not sure how many more times I can do this.

Hi people. I have availed enhanced health insurance coverage offered by EY GDS.

Some amount was cut under 'Insurance Deduction' in April and nothing in May and June. In July and August, they have deducted amount under 'Insurance Topup Deduction' and some amount under 'Insurance Deduction Others' with no explanation whatsoever! No tax exemption is also provided for senior citizens.

Any idea folks? Also, whom should we reach out to for such queries?

Recommendations for good reads during pregnancy please?

Hi All

I have 2 offers in hand 1 from tcs of 15 LPA and another from Optum of 18 LPA. Point is i have a small 8 month old kid. Due to this, i need a job which will be less hectic so that i can take care of her( i dont want to leave her to maid). So which will be a better option fr me.

Been dating for a little over a year, but she hasn’t introduced me to her family yet. I don’t have any plans for thanksgiving this year, and she didn’t invite me to spend the holiday with her family (local). Is it still too early or is it a red flag?

115k/yr job with 7% 401k matching, medical/dental/ pension plan also Federal job. Or $100/hr contracting no benefits. Pros and Cons of each?

How to get someone with bipolar and/or insomnia to sleep? Pleaaaaasse help

Hi everyone! My little sister is Disney-obsessed, and she very much wants to go to Club 33 in Disneyland. She has a rare disease and is severely disabled (using a wheelchair), and also has learning disabilities. She has a very tough daily life and I just want to do what I can to make her happy. I am reaching to see if anyone knows a way or a contact that could help her visit Club 33. Probably unrealistic but pls dm if you do!

Apartment gym and pool have opened back up ! Finally!!!

Neuro nurse here- one of our CNAs recently caught a patient mid-stroke! They felt like something wasn't right with the patient and brought it to my attention. Train your aides well- it's so worth it!

Anyone have any good gluten free suggestions? Never have a problem eating GF here (allergy) just curious if there are any gems i’m missing out on…

How are retail pharmacies regulating vaccine distribution? It doesn’t look like they are requiring any proof/documentation when booking online besides a checkbox

Fun exercise: Let's see how many days of PTO everyone has? Unlimited doesn't count

Hello fishes! Looking for some guidance on Oyo rooms interview. The hr gave me a brief idea on the rounds which in total is 5. Any tips, ideas, kind of questions asked..your experience, anything is welcome! Help a fellow techie!

Thank you!

Looking for C# Automation Testing folks in Pune.

No of position: 3
Exp: 3-10 yrs
Company name: Atyeti
Early joiners preferred.

Kindly DM me if interested.

Does anyone need a hr coordinator, or entry level talent acquisitions coordinator that is 100 remote? Remote jobs are extremely competitive and when I find job posts on LinkedIn there are already over 100 applicants. Very competitive!I am open minded about salary,I have so much interest in expanding my skills. I have about a year of recruiting in the staffing industry and 6 months as an hr assistant for a corporate/manufacturing company. MA in Hr and will be testing for phr in July. Thank you

Any preference on dictation softwares? I’m looking for a more efficient way to manage my notes. I have an IMac. Do you guys have any recommendations?

any filipino social groups here? naghahanap ng makakausap 🙂

Dear Sharks

Has anyone got Bonus payment, Usually 30% bonus split into 7.5% will paid on the last month of each quarter right
Like March, June, September, December

I have joined August month
I have not got any variable pay bonus
Is my understanding correct
Pls guide

Anyone working in Vulnerability Management? What should I be asking for starting salary living in the Phoenix area? I'm currently working a contract to hire and hiring negotiations start at the beginning of the year.

Is it a bad idea to date someone from work?

I have successfully completed CSM & CSPO.

What is the next certification I can go for?

What can be the expected salary of senior technical program manager at Amazon qa ?

Hi everyone how difficult it is too certified in AWS Developer Associate and Solutions architect.
For someone who has experience in Development
In Java, Spring Boot, Microservices

I also worked on some of the AWS Services like
EKS, ECS, Lambda, S3, RDS, SQS. I mean I use them by going to the Management console. Also has knowledge in VPC, subnets, security groups but i tend to forget some of these concepts.
Didn't take any formal course but learnt from blogs, youtube videos, LinkedIn course

Hi folks I recently switched and my package is 13 LPA but as the role was not aligning with my goals so I switched again within 2 months. Now when I got interviewed for this new org(which is a unicorn). At starting they agreed on min 20% hike + 1lpa as a Joining Bonus. But while giving the offer they gave the same amount of 13lpa. Do you guys think it's fair of starting the interviews with something and then lowball the candidate? My interviews went pretty well

Is it worth installing a garbage disposal for a tenant? My research is looking like the installation labor can cost a lot and down the road be subject to clogs/repairs

JL Associates, do you think we are getting another raise?

How does a sole engineer at a company go about getting management to actually care how production machines run? I’m the only mechanical engineer at my company dealing with a half dozen cranky production managers who think that I can “work my magic” on a machine. It’s not magic, just ignorance about the machine actually works. How to I get a manager to stop caring about the end product long enough for me to actually teach them about their own machine?

Timma be high and eat hot dogs.

Agree or disagree: devil dogs is only good high. Dog Hause on the otherhand - low key date night and high

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Does anyone have information about the role of a mediator? I’m trying to find valuable information online about what it’s like and what it takes to become a mediator of any kind and there’s so much space trash out there. Whether it’s in divorce or conflict management or elsewhere, I’m just seeking perspective. Any insight or connections would be appreciated!

My 8th grader still believes in Santa. Should I tell him?

Maybe it's just because I'm used to people in the DC area being either fairly preppy or business professional but my girlfriend temporarily lives in Salt Lake City and I have to say is that people are really odd. We are City people so the attraction of the outdoors isn't really significant. Our view is that if we want to do something Outdoorsy, we will just take a trip. Not judging anyone.

Why does it attract such eccentric people?

Idk what to do anymore. A few years back I struggled with gambling addiction and put myself in so much debt and never told anyone. Fast forward I have a gf who thinks I’m successfully but I am drowning in debt still that I truly don’t know how I’ll get out of. Can’t keep up with bills and put this front up much longer. Absolutely miserable

My dog turns 12 and it depresses me that she’s getting older. Just had a sobbing session at the thought of losing her. She’s been by side throughout my most difficult adult life moments (divorce, cross-country moves, different jobs, toxic relationships, etc). I know I should treasure each moment, but the inevitable will eventually come and that just breaks my heart. 😥

Biden if you don’t want to forgive the student loans just say that. 🥹🥹🥹

Why does it feel like everyone is so closed off these days? It feels impossible to form connections with people when the default seems to be pretending you’re aloof, emotionally unavailable, and generally uninterested in other people.

I feel like I am living days away from Friday everyday. Friday is the center of my universe.

Remember kids, it isn’t burning bridges when you have an abundance mindset

Best dating app practices for average looking dudes, let’s get some advice from both sides

Happy Monday…grateful for another beautiful morning expressing gratitude for all the wonderful a d amazing things we got in our lives.

Just had to send out an email explaining that numbers can’t be divided by 0.

Fishies, what’s the most braindead piece of info you’ve had to explain at work?

My career goal isn’t to make it to MBB or a unicorn or FAANG. It’s to feel fulfilled and challenged as I progress. I can’t be the only one that isn’t title or company chasing.

Do you ever feel in a relationship absolutely sure you’re with your soulmate or will there always be some doubts you’re not with your perfect match?

Is it unprofessional to have your bed in the background? Obviously it's worse if it's unmade. Moving places and struggling to avoid it happening while maximizing SQFT.

We had new neighbors move in across the street a few months ago. A couple with a child of about 7 years old who clearly has a cognitive disability of some sort (I suspect autism). I’m becoming concerned about him. He seems to spend a good amount of time alone outdoors. He often flags down passers by to chat. I thought perhaps his parents kept an eye on him through the window, but today he was hanging on a neighbor’s front stoop for a good half hour. I went over to talk to him and see if (con’t)