My boyfriend and I are on completely different sleep schedules and I feel like we haven't been able to spend any time because of that. He's up to 2 or 3 every night, wakes up around 8:30/9, goes to work and naps for 2-3 hours after work. I try to sleep by 11/12 and wake up at 7 everyday, don't take any naps. How can I bring this up without being like pls stop napping

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Is this an issue on the weekends? And what do you mean not spend any time? Does he still make an effort to have meals together and chat with you in between breaks?

Ah cant wait to get there! Only one more month of distance 😍

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Or…here’s an idea! You can nap too and talk late at night! If you expect him to compromise, I think you should make the first move!

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