My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and during our college years/before we were dating I slept with one of his friends and also kissed two others. Even after being together for that long he still gets upset about it and causes a fight. I don't even know what to say anymore because it's so ridiculous to me..... is this normal? How do I resolve this for good? Any advice is appreciated :)

Just hearing about these Deshaun Watson lawsuits.. 🤯

Has anyone recently gone back into banking? I am thinking about going back because of the increase in comp and opportunity to work at a top BB. I was a boutique ib analyst for 2 yrs and currently a LMM PE firm 1st year associate.

Hi all,

I have experience of 4+ years in software development. I am looking for a change in frontend development role in Angular.

I need referrals, please DM me if you can refer me genuinely.

Thank you

How are you prospecting? Are there any millennial advisors who are having luck focusing on HENRYs?

Hi ladies, has anyone here had any luck or have any advice about asking for a raise ~6 months after starting a job? For reference, I’m in an entry level position at a large agency and have friends/colleagues in my role that I know are making $10-15K more. Some negotiated higher from the start, others brought competing offers to the table and the agency asked them to stay, etc. Not sure that I want to go there but I just feel overworked and underpaid and wonder how I can best approach this convo.

Twice now I have been ghosted by hiring managers after my initial HR screen. It’s really got me feeling like shit.

I’m a 44 year female professional with Spouse and teenage children. I have no close friends. My extended family recently moved away.
How do I meet and make friends at my age? I’m lonely for female companionship but clueless as to how and where I find “my people”. Ideas?

I’m curious as to Sales Ops Manager salaries across tech in the US. I’m at $180k with 15% bonus potential and around $180k stock package in total.

whats your worst experience with Revit/Autocad so far? i love a good story.

Anyone here actually really like their CD?

Does accenture give this much flexibility to work from the base location?

I’m looking for some insight into Deloitte’s EA structure. Are the EA’s managed by administrative manager or report directly to a PPMD? Is there a partner-to-admin ratio expected? Any info is welcome!

The Firm appears to be walking the talk when it comes to Juneteenth. Half day today and Monday off! I wonder if Bain and Boston Consulting Group plus the Big4 are doing the same or similar.

Does anyone have good resources in finding a quality adhd coach? I’ve found tons of therapists who say they understand it, but few do. Is there a directory of good ones anywhere for adults working in a corporate setting?

Anybody Recently got interviewed in Gartner needs to know Process and interview for Java Full Stack Developer YOE-5

Hi Folks, I got an offer with TCS recently as an Associate Consultant. Can anyone let me know how is this role and it's responsibilities in TCS.. is it similar to manager or lead?

Flying out of ORD this weekend at 8:30am. Is it better to take taxi/Uber and when should I plan to head out? I live in Streeterville. Many thanks in advance!

Hi everyone!

I am currently looking for a job as an Informatica Lead/ETL Consultant in Pune. I come from a Data Warehousing background and have 6 years’ experience in Informatica Powercenter, SQL, UNIX. I am currently serving notice with 15 days left in hand.

If anyone knows of a job opening where I would be a good fit, I'd appreciate if you could send them my way! I would be very grateful.

Thanks

My niece is turning 21 soon. What should I get her? TIA!

Help: I supervise a new staff. We get along well, I like her and I advocate for her as much as possible in meetings with the managing director. However, she has a really hard time taking feedback from me specifically. I’ve read and re-read my review comments that I’ve given her, and I do try hard to be polite and non-judgmental with my feedback. I’ve asked other people for their opinions and they agree it is polite and professional. I think the real issue is that we are the same age. Advice?

Just venting. Really want to leave my job but seeing as I’m due to have my baby early April, I’d forfeit maternity leave and don’t want to rush putting my baby in childcare. Being a woman is hard. 😪

GT only offers 12 weeks of maternity leave. Does that feel short compared to other firms and companies?

I’m 21, just graduated college in May, and recently moved 20 hours from my hometown/where I went to school. I don’t have any friends in the area and starting work virtually has made it very difficult to meet anybody. I’m still studying for the cpa and living at home with my parents so I don’t have a ton of free time, but would still like to make some friends. Does anyone have any advice for meeting new people during a pandemic?

Has anyone missed two busy seasons as a manager due to maternity leave and were still promoted to SM on time?

Thinking of getting Botox after things get back to normal. What are some of the things to look for? Questions to ask? Also how much do you typically spend per session in a HCOL?

Ladies ladies ladies.. in your opinion.. is staying on dating apps a 'healthy' choice when you're mental state isn't the best because of just how guarded life has made you? Or is it a way to put yourself out there instead of digging a deeper grave?

This is my second time breaking down and crying in front of my office’s partner. First time was dealing with a tough transition. Now, they were tears of relief over good feedback. How do I stop being such a puddle and grow some thicker skin?

What do you like to do for fun? As a 25 year old I feel like im supposed to like going out and drinking but I really just don’t 😫

mental break down

my partner told me i’ve recently started snoring unbearably loud. I set up a doctor’s appointment for monday. Then i hopped on the scale and realize i’ve gained 20 pounds (i wasn’t small to start with hovering around a US size 12).

i am just so disappointed in myself as a person and as a partner, because my boyfriend doesn’t deserve this. i’ve been crying all morning

too embarrassed to bring this up with my friends so just sharing these woes somewhere

I get severe menstrual cramps every time. It becomes impossible for me to even get up to fetch a glass of water. I am really worried about what I would do when offices open in person. How will I manage this every month if in office…

How do people pay for weddings if your parents aren’t helping? We’re stuck between getting a house or having a wedding, but since we’re paying for it all I can’t reason with spending loads of money on a wedding when I can have a house. How much did you spend on your wedding? These wedding budgets seem pretty high if it’s coming out of our own pockets.

Anyone have suggestions for wedding day bridesmaids gifts? Trying to stay away from the normal robe or personalized totes kind of stuff. Also trying to keep it between $50-100/pp

An old roommate of mine is getting married. I wasn’t invited to the wedding. Would it still be appropriate to purchase them a gift off of their registry?

Anyone live in SF and knows where you can go all dressed up for a romantic date? I really want to wear this 3.1 Phillip Lim pink slip dress after losing 20 lbs for around Valentine's day but it seems like people wear flip flops and jeans to fancy dinners here (Kind of annoying tbh lol). I just want a romantic day where I can feel really attractive with my boyfriend and have an excuse to wear this dress haha.

Has nothing to do with accounting. I need hair help - doesn’t matter how little or how much I wash my hair - it looks greasy. My scalp is dry. I live in a very drum area climate. Does anyone have any suggestions? I’ve thought about joining this blowout club …

who still wear heels to work🙋

How do you get a f boi to settle down?

New senior here and considering having a child with husband in the near future. Is it normal to worry about my career path and is it worth derailing promotions a little? A family is something I’ve always wanted, but my career is something I’ve been working hard for and I’m afraid of how it will affect things.