My boyfriend of 3months still talks with his ex gf. Now i was okay with it at first until the girl started calling me and now sends me screenshots of their conversation and missed calls from him.

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Its unfortunate this is happening. I suspect you know this is incredibly dysfunctional and is likely to lead to hurt and upset.

I recommend you move on and find something healthier.

Good luck!

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Lots of cost, what is the added value?

I can’t understand for the life of me why we insist on locking ourselves into these rigid institutions. Just follow your sense and benefit (with respect of course).... hedonism at its finest. ;)

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Dump him.

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What is this high school drama on my feed?

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I was thinking the same ... OP stop letting him play you like this - you know what is best for you...

How does anyone have free time enough to worry about this? Clearly you are underutilized. Ask your senior for more work!

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An unprofessional one to boot!

The same way you get em is the same way you lose em. Prepare for the inevitable or ditch this guy

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Tell him to go cold turkey or you’re going cold turkey.

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Why on earth is she calling you? What’s going on in the convos she’s sending screenshots of?

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Yeah but why is she sending those? Seems weird. It’s not always weird to stay friends with someone you were with that long, they know you well and all that, but it depends on the nature of the friendship and how things ended

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I find that very disrespectful. I have spoken to my bf and he says he has no intention to be with her but doesn't want to be enemies. Her on the other hand is trying to get back with him and the fact that she doesn't mind flaunting it on my face says alot. She tells me to enjoy the little time i have with him and tells me he keeps apologizing and begging her. Their breakup was kinda messy because she caught us...together. Now i knew of her existence only when i started dating him but i think he hadn't told her he wanted a breakup...just kinda distancing himself gradually. when she saw us, he made it clear to her that i was his woman and she should leave. Mind you i didn't like the way he treated her because i am a woman and i know how it feels.Now she looks for every excuse to talk to him and would call me to talk about him or send me messages. He says he never calls her but answers or returns her missed calls . Am i crazy fo feeling disrespected and wants him to stop talking with her?

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As an exp assoc, you're always in the details. It's natural you're feeling the way you do. Think like a partner - think bigger picture. I know it's lame to put it that way, but relationships aren't supposed to be like this. Move on - you'll definitely find something way better!

MAJOR RED FLAG! Run!!

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Yeah he’s getting with both of you same as always. And you are BOTH letting him. He sounds entirely not worth anyone’s time.

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Dump the zero, and get with a hero 🤓

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Get out now

Get out of that. He’s gonna do the same thing to you. A leopard doesn’t change his spots. I was just on the other girls end of all this and it sucks. So I get where she’s coming from but texting you is weird. My ex cheated it seems like your current guy did the same thing my ex did. Why would you want to be with someone who has no regard for someone’s feelings because he’ll do it to you too if he has the chance.

Break up with him

You need to cut it

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