My coworker who’s the same level as me keeps trying to pass on her work to me. Today she said let’s set up time to discuss next week (I’m thinking she wanted me to set it) but mentioned the output of the meeting is something she would like to present at a broader meeting. I just said yes let’s, and left it at that. She’s my peer but been longer at the company and also about 8 years older but by no means do I report to her. Is it wild for me to be annoyed at this situation? If she wants to..

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Are you attending the larger meeting? If so, I would start the meeting by saying something like”I will present this part of the presentation since we are working together”. If she declines I would have to “research” any further information that was needed and probably wouldn’t provide it.

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You’re a manager, you need to put a stop to this and kindly decline. This person sound like they’ve targeted you as a pushover.

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Just tell her to google it

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I really need to learn to be more assertive.

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Run with this particular initiative that’s fine by me but by no means is your gal going to do the work and not get credit for it. Looking for some thoughts on how to navigate this, please..

Just don't set it up.

I hear ya, but it's not on you to feel guilty or bad - the other person certainly doesn't.

You could always invite the person you both report to. I'm sure they wouldn't want either of you wasting time on her trying to negotiate that you take over her work. If you can do both jobs, maybe it's time for you to get a promotion.

In that case you can just tell your manager what's going on and ask what they want you to do.

I wish I had a manager like you, mine have been evil witches 🤣👿 especially the women.

Do nothing.

When they next pass their work to you, say no. If they insist, shift the communication is to text form - email/ slack/ whatever your org uses, and continue to say no. Then raise your concern with your manager about feeling like you want to support your coworker, but don’t want to put your deliverables at risk.

So the meeting happened today and she not only talked to the initiative but also passed off one of my ideas as hers. Like Bruh what .. legit so pissed off man

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