My current employer is giving me letting me consume all the leaves. I am forced to do work.
I have 1 month remaining in lwd. I have good offer in hand.
What should I do?
Should I go in one whole week leave saying my mother had heart attack or anything like that?
Will it affect myreleving letter? Will it affect my LWD? I am a SSE having 8.5 yoe.

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