My date doesn't ask any personal questions about me. Been on 3 dates. We talked about interests, work, and creative pursuits. I know about his family, where he grew up, other personal stuff but he hasn't asked me anything. Also he hasn't made a move at all barring hugging me bye after the 3rd date. He wants to see me again next week. I am so confused. Is he interested? Am I just company?

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Y’all are networking, not dating.

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Hahaha I am going to try that . Thanks for the idea 😈

So..uhh... Why are you going on dates with this person exactly?

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Please elaborate! The conversation was great on the first 2 dates. Kinda gob smacked after the 3rd as I was not expecting it to go the way it did.

It's a no for me dude; ofc he wants to see you, you're a captive audience. Do what you like but if he's going out on a date with you he should have some basic level of interest in your life/day/thoughts/feelings.

Maybe give it one more date and make an effort to put in more of yourself to the conversation. *Maybe* he doesn't want to pry and is waiting for you to feel comfortable to offer something about yourself. BUT if you do and the conversation inevitably turns back to him this is someone who probably isn't ready to actually date someone else.

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Bingo! Went through this last week. The date was heavily one sided with him barely asking about me and talking about himself for three hours. I was so shocked when he asked to see me again. But to your point, he probably enjoyed having an audience. I respectfully declined.

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He's probably just a shy dude, make a move

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He's a narcissist who only invested in himself with no interest to get to know you. Move to the next one.

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F him. He’s not interested. Next!

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Went on 2 frustrating dates like this and ultimately decided to end it. That said, some of the guys I ended up dating didn’t kiss me till 3rd date

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I would consider that self absorbed and probably pass.

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My question is why are you still interested in him? You've already given him 3 chances to ask you some questions, but nothing? A captive audience is one thing but listening to someone talking about themselves for the whole 3 dates is just not right. Move on and stop letting him waste your time!

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Maybe he just doesn’t have a lot of emotional intelligence? Push to get deeper and see where it goes. Sounds like you don’t feel a spark either though?

I am interested. Noticed some of this on the 2nd date. The 3rd date just made this apparent.

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