My emotionally abusive ex followed one of my blogs on Instagram. He reached out to me today and I blocked him from it. I have officially blocked from my ex from everywhere after 2 years of break up

Home searching as I get ready to start my new BL job. What do you recommend, multi family or condo? I am single with no kids . Also did anyone have an offer accepted on the first how they saw? Do you regret that?

Also, do cover letters actually work??

I am wondering if anyone has tips to ensure students are on task while I do a small group. No busy work... must be ela standard driven.. my kiddos seem only on task a little- one hour daily

I have a student with autism. He is mostly behavioral and at a lower learning level so he has to be in a separate classroom. We try to let him play with the students at recess or join in class parties. He has a sibling that attends school as well. When we were waiting in car line a group of girls talked about how they feel so bad for the sibling because of my student. Thankfully, neither student or sibling heard. But how do I respond to that as an adult? Especially, if they do hear?

Admittedly I don’t know the solutions to a lot of our world’s problems but would it be so bad to just keep some of these social issues out of politics? Let people love/marry who they want and let women decide their own medical needs. You want to marry a man or woman? Doesn’t matter to me! You want to give birth to your child? Fine by me! You want to terminate your pregnancy because of whatever reason? Fine by me!

What are your favorite international destinations for traveling with kids? We are getting the travel bug, but trying to figure out something realistic with a 10-month old (likely will be closer to ~1.5 years when go this fall / winter). We're in the mid-west, so Europe, South America, Asia are all options, but have their own trade-offs (flight time, time zones, ease of logistics, safety/security, etc.).

Just not feeling good, under going divorce. don’t know if I will ever be able to trust anyone in future. Is love just a myth ? How are people dealing with divorce in arranged marriage system?

Recently ended a 3+ yr relationship (were both mid 20s and living together for just under 2 years) bc of him buying an engagement ring yet not proposing and waffling about our future. After 2 weeks I brought up that there’s a lot of good in us that maybe worth trying to work on (counseling etc). He wants space first and asked me to not wait for him as he sorts out his emotions and “tries to be happy again” (COVID depression and 100hr work weeks). Then he’ll decide if he wants to try again

I have a suggestion/ things you want me to know box in my classroom. Today one of my students put a note in the box saying her mom lost her job and she feels bad because she is the poorest student in the class. She said the other kids have cool things and she is poor. I want to help her but don’t want to offend her parents. Any suggestions?

Amid covid (2 years ago) I got into a paternalistic/white knight kind of relationship. Basically made SO leave her country to escape from a terrible situation, we weren't official at the time, and I expected things to go a lot more smoothly that they went, love turned more into a protective feeling, however now that I'm changing jobs and in a position where I finally feel like getting the recognition and pay that I deserve I have started to feel a little trapped in my relationship, (Continue)

I don’t understand the work “husband/ wife” dynamic…

Idk if there is a bowl for this, but this has been on my mind pretty heavy lately. Does anyone feel like they are not themselves? I feel I have lost a grasp of who I truly am. I feel like I float through work, float through social situations - react in a BS manner and just say stuff one way or another just to say it. Feel I react how I do in my relationship just bc it’s the “right thing to do”, etc. I feel as if I have become a robot. Contd in comments..

Going through a breakup now- we dated for 8 months and have been getting into fights multiple times per week and it’s become toxic (swearing/name calling from him). Yesterday got in a dumb fight and ended up taking all my stuff from his place and we returned our keys, and haven’t talked since. Need inspo stories from ppl who went through something similar. Any recs for moving on?

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

Story: I had this group of girlfriends. Over the past year, two of them got in a major fight and I remained friends with both. The group all sided with one girl because they knew her longer, and I kept being friends with both because I genuinely cared for both. Now the larger group is saying if I remain friends with the other girl, I can’t be their friend (we’re 28). This makes me sad because I feel like my “friendships” are just falling to the wayside

Work has been non-stop, seven days a week work, this week already has a ton of full days ahead, and my ex let me know today she’s started seeing someone new. How does everyone cope with life and work raining down in waves?

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

Does anyone know any ISB couples?
(Preferably those who have graduated in 2017 or before)
Please DM.

I still feel like I just argue with parents that don't want to vaccinate. Have a hard time having a logical conversation

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

Hey Folks,

Nike is hiring. DM me if you need referral. Please do visit the career site and let me know relevant profiles.

All the best

I work as a Product Operations Manager and hoping to be promoted to Sr soon. Currently making 85k. What would you expect my pay raise to be?

Not a directly fitness-related question. I love spending time putdoors, but have severe issues with cold weather. Recommendations for really warm jackets suitable for high elevation hikes, skiing, etc.? Warm glove recomendations? Thank you.

Does anyone have list of non-faang companies that is sponsoring H1 transfers?

Got a verbal offer from PwC for senior associate role. Does it provide H1B transfer? How long will it take nowadays? I’m worried this would get my offer retreated.

Has anyone run across a humorous Privacy Policy that was understandable but still checked all the compliance boxes?

🆘 I was an inter at Leo Burnett Chicago in 2018. Im doing taxes and I can’t find my W2. Does anyone know who I can contact to get the form today?🆘

On good days, I love advertising and couldn't imagine doing anything else. On bad ones, I'd rather claw my eyes out with a fork than sit in another pointless meeting.

Looking for some guidance. Rec’d 14k from previous employer pension fund. So far my rollover investments are in target fund. Should I just this money there or think of some other funds to invest in e.g. VTI, VOO, VXUS etc? Im with Vanguard brokerage house.

Hey Fishes,
I am suppose to join BNY Pune on grade I very soon. Wanted to check on how is the bank doing in the recession time. Any chances of layoffs predicted? Is the bank suffering any loss?

DM for referral to PwC and Strategy& (which pays comparable to MBB)

Looking for Advise :
Should i join Ab Inbev or Deloitte USI ? I am getting similar package and work profile in both organizations.

Why people get married if the chance of long lasting happiness is so low?

I've done parts of the CFP but couldn't sit for the exam. I am thinking about finishing the requirements to sit, but I am wondering if my time would be better spent prospecting. Thoughts?

Open thread: What attracted you to M&A Consulting? I’m making the switch from tech consulting, and would love to hear backgrounds and other perspectives.

In EY GDS does gratuity and insurance is separate
From the fixed pay as they are mentioned separately, will it get cut from the fixed ctc part?

How much can a manual tester make with 1 yoe in cognizant if he wants to shift

Having an absolute panic attack over nothing. Heart racing, dry mouth, feelings of terror. Sucks to realize there’s no one I can call to talk about this. Just trying to breathe it out

On the verge of a breakdown. Is requesting time off for mental health reasons OK? My team is overloaded with work and I don’t want to let them down

I just wanted to thank all you folks that contribute to this bowl. For me personally, its helpful to know that i’m not alone with struggles that we all seem to face. Thanks!

Guys - i just want to be calm and not anxious and not worried about my career and what other people think of me. If I succeed I succeed if not then it is what it is.

Idk if it’s from the years of mental/emotional abuse or lack of boundaries / respect, but seeing my family has become awkward and tough. I went home for dinner today and just like other times - we don’t talk or I have to force conversation (so plans this weekend or what you do this week). I’m the oldest and trying to set an example for my sister but it’s tough. Idk if anyone else can relate. I legit came over for 1.5 hrs and left.

How do you know when it’s time to throw in the towel and quit work and try to find something else? I haven’t been in my current position for long and am a new graduate but I feel terrible all the time but don’t want to admit that the last few years of my education/debt were all for nothing.

See a therapist. Talking about it in person helps.

Has anyone written your final words or last words and was able to put it aside. Put it away. I've been reading it over and over and slowly updating it.

Feeling extremely low. Wondering if any fellow fish can hear me out.

The only thing I look forward to on the weekend is drinking a beer or two. I had one beer on Friday. One on Saturday. I know that's not a lot by some standards but I miss going to my gym to unwind. I can't get that escape at home.

Just not feeling good, under going divorce. don’t know if I will ever be able to trust anyone in future. Is love just a myth ? How are people dealing with divorce in arranged marriage system?

Work has been non-stop, seven days a week work, this week already has a ton of full days ahead, and my ex let me know today she’s started seeing someone new. How does everyone cope with life and work raining down in waves?

Does anyone else ever feel like they wish something would happen and they would just die a martyr? I have no intention of self harm but I’ve been depressed for exactly half of my life this year and I’ve made so many wrong choices. I’m just so tired.

A partner just called me screaming at me for a mistake that I didn’t make - yelling “are you calling me a liar?” at the top of his lungs. My mom heard it. Having a panic attack. What do I do next?

Went through some difficult interviews. So hard that I was not sure what I was doing. Tried my best but still feeling kinda down… just want a hug please 😞

I’m so incredibly burnt out—I’ve been going to sleep at 3 am and waking up at 7. I’m working 16 hour days consistently, and on Friday through Saturday I literally pulled an all nighter (until 11 am) to work. I don’t have time to make friends, let alone hang out with them, and all of my partner’s free time lately has been helping me stay afloat. I told myself I wouldn’t quit before busy season ends in March and put my team in a bad spot, but I honestly don’t know if I can make it to then.

How do you deal w/ coworkers who turn on you. Use to be close (me, T and H), then this young naive know it all (A) comes in who just has it out for me and kills the vibe. Destroys the team. Now T, who use to bad mouth A talks to her all day long and they always message right after I say anything, T H and A have a chat call positivism that doesn’t include me, they barely talk to me now. T asked me what I’d do if I was never making manager then said she knows a lot of info, but refuses to say more

Hi friends!

I got an offer for a job where I’d be switching industries / taking a pay cut for a different career path that I think would provide me more fulfillment. My plan is to provide 2 weeks notice tomorrow, but I’m having anxiety about it since my projects are running full speed ahead, and I may make things quite difficult on the team. I know this may be common in consulting, but just curious if anyone has gone through similar and how you’ve approached the convos?

I’m suffering from burnout and desperately trying to get some PTO in July. During ny time off what can I do to recover from burnout? What should I be thinking through? Right now, I’m too exhausted to think, but I want to have a loose game plan going into my time off, so I can avoid being pushed to the edge like this again.

So after being thrown around like a ball at work, I finally got an offer from another company and accepted it. I’m stuck in the immigration process which is at least 2 months. I want to take back my..