My ex and I are waiting the 6 month period of our divorce process to be finalized. If I get a promotion or change jobs that pay more do I have to let her know? Will she be able to get more money even though we both have a notarized agreement on a set amount that was signed/approved by the judge?

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Where are you in the process?

It seems you owe her support payments. Has an agreement on that been reached? Is it a fixed amount? Generally speaking that amount doea not change based on future increase in income.

Are you using an attorney? If so, this will be a question for your attorney.

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I seriously doubt that the amount will change.

But again I am not an attorney, I did spend a night at the holiday Inn express ones:-)

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Don’t go above and beyond what is required by the signed agreement.

If there is nothing in the agreement that adjusts the settlement based on your situation, then you’re good . Also follow any requirements for disclosure - if any- but you agreed to what you agreed to

She could try to come back to change terms though. But that could happen post divorce too

I suspect the 6 months is to save the courts from reversing divorces that were just kidding

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The divorce judgment has been filed and she has been served. We filed it with the court and the judge signed off on it. It shows when the date of when the marriage will be dissolved. But in CA we have to wait for 6 months until it is finalized. That's where we are in the process. We both agreed to a specific amount rather than letting the court decided via guideline support. We got it notarized and included it with the judgment. We don't have any children together or assets to divide. I have been paying that agreed amount since we separated and came to the agreement of what I would pay. I don't have an attorney and we did the process on our own.

Talk to a family law attorney. It’ll be worth the $300 for an hour if they even charge you for it.

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