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My ex fiancé from 5 years ago literally started following me and liked pictures on my insta. He’s married with a kid now. Like why? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Dead bedroom.

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That’s very likely. Lol Thanks for brainstorming with me. Ahahaha!

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It’s really easy to remove a follower / block them.

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OP Do it! Do it quick!

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Maybe he thinks you have both moved on and the pic you posted was just a nice pic of you... As a guy I find it kinda insulting when people insinuate that all dudes are super h*rny and the only compass in their lives are their d*cks!

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Honestly I’m a female and was about to come on here and say it could honestly mean nothing/ you’re just reading into it. I’m currently happily married, but I follow several of my exs on social media because I love to see how successful and happy they have become in life. It’s just nice to know someone I loved once is now happy and achieving their dreams, and it has nothing to do with wanting them or being attracted to them.

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Brother thirsty

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Lol. Love this comment.

Care to share what caused you both to break off the engagement?

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SM2 is spot on. He regrets. He didn’t stand up for you, in part, to his family. You still made had differences and he regrets now he could t overcome them. He’s also now just glossing over the problems bc he thinks his problems now are bigger. And this happens a lot.

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Nostalgia

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He wants 👀💦

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Eeks. I’ve zero interest in him. 🥴

Block him, he’s looking for attention.

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Because he’s married with a kid now and wondering if the grass would have been greener on the other side and reminiscing about the past.

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He want that old thang back

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I’m surprised he isn’t blocked. None of my ex boyfriends have access to my current private life.

Oh wow 😮 that’s enough to ignore. He went out of his way to follow you again.

Another possibility (depends on his personality) - he doesn’t want to be forgotten.

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