My ex has been dating his current girlfriend for 5 years and not married. We broke up bc he didn’t see himself marrying me. Do you think the same thing is happening?

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Why are you analysing this? He's been your ex for years. What do you get out of analysing this?

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Leave him where he belongs - in the past!!

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Please move on. He has an endless supply of women willing to let him waste their time and their youth

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OP you’re just looking for us to say “yes sounds like it!” But we have absolutely no info to go off and this is a dumb question

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Who cares lol he’s your ex...

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Maybe his girlfriend isn’t the marrying type either.

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I think the more important question is why do you even care?

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You gotta let go. If you want us to confirm that he’s at fault- may be. But you have to fix the part of you that’s not able to let go.

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