My ex husband didn't set up mail forwarding and my tenant got his W2 today. How can I deal with this? Do I ask him to set up mail forwarding? Or should my tenant just return the mail to the post office?

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Have the tenant write Return to Sender, Addressee Moved.

Not your, or your tenant’s issue that your ex is irresponsible.

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Came here to say this. You're not his keeper anymore.

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Tell your ex husband that the tenant has his w2 and let him figure out the next steps.

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He may have also gotten it online... if you aren’t comfortable reaching out, pretend you don’t know and let your tenant return to sender. Not your problem!

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His irresponsibility, his problem. Tell the tenant to return to sender. You have no responsibility here; you’ve already done more than I would have.

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Your tenant was civil by letting you know, keep the kindness going, write him a neutral note and let him know.

What goes around comes around.

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