My ex is always saying how good he would be in sports, singing,dancing like you name it he got it 🤦‍♂️Yet he’ve been unemployed for years unemployed 😳. Am I wrong to feel some type of way?

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It sounds like it’s a good thing he is your ex. Pls leave it that way.

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Oh I wouldn’t change a thing 😳

Lol. I get what you mean. I had an ex who goes on and on about how talented they are, but when I question realistic things like source of income, whether it’s salaried or freelance, the room crickets. It’s that feeling of dealing with a know-it-all. Narcissism doesn’t equal confidence if that’s what you are thinking of.

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Exactly!!

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OP, I have a feeling your time could be better utilized… elsewhere. 🫶

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Got at all those except getting a job maybe?

So it's okay 👍🏼

JK - he 🗑️

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At least he’s good at real estate, living in your head rent free and all 😌

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He needs a mentor. If he's competent in any of those, they can be monetized with a plan.

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He is very talented in some areas but I guess he has desired to move up or thrive?

He’s your ex. Why do you care at all?

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He is my ex no my enemy. But it’s just annoying because I want to say something mean but I don’t 😅

Has to compensate for not being good enough in one area to have a job. It’s okay to shine in as a career that doesn’t sound impressive at first.

HSC1 sorry I didn’t get it 😅

He’s your ex, why do you care?

It’s just annoying.. I mean we have to communicate but he is always seeing how good he is at EVERYTHING

Good thing he’s your ex lollll

How is he helping to support your child if he is unemployed? I’d stop entertaining it and tell him to go find some work to help pay for the kid he helped make.

Girl, CHILD SUPPORT is a thing. Tell that man to get a job, and stop indulging him.

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Your ex is living and enjoying his unemployed life, meanwhile you're on here thinking about him and asing us to make you feel better about it

Titles aren't everything baby

🫡 thank you for indulging me VP2

Why are you worried/entertaining your ex???

🤦‍♂️ guys let’s not lose focus here… it was a simple question. I’m not worrying about my ex. I have almost daily conversations with this man as we have a child together and he is very involve.

All I’m saying is he likes to say he is good at EVERYTHING and I just feel like 🙄 you don’t even have a job. And I feel that’s a mean thing to say so I don’t 😑

If he’s your ex, what does it matter what he’s doing or saying. Sounds like you should be counting your blessings.

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