My ex stalked me on instagram!. Why would he now?! 🙄

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Mine too. But I secretly like it because I’m doing well 👍🏼😆

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Can you tell me if it means anything from his end..he has been seeing my stories for three days only but. Last week of Dec I kicked him out of my insta..I need to get over

Ive stalked all my exes over the past 10 years...why? Bc it is a pandemic, I am bored and at 2 am when I’ve run out of app to refresh or notifications to check, I start stalking every single person I’ve ever thought of in my life to make up random scenarios in my head. I honestly wouldn’t think much of it...they’re an ex for a reason.

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I got back with my first love after 2 years of not talking. It was awkward for 2 or 3 months. Then we broke up again. That ideal scenario where everything goes back to the good old days isn't what happens. There's a certain growing apart that just can't be undone.

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Boredom.

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Exactly. Don’t fall for it.

I have an ex who I dated many years ago. He would watch every single one of my Stories. He’d sporadically reach out and we’d go through periods of texting and flirting then silence. But he never failed to watch a Story. I haven’t been on IG for about 5 months. Do you know how many times he’s reached out to see how I’m doing? Zero. Out of sight out of mind. All those years thinking we’d always have a special connection, even if it never turned into more... were a lie. He was just bored. Realizing that has been liberating as hell.

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I do it when I'm wondering what's going on with them.

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Ohh .👍🏻

I unfollowed on insta and Facebook. She finds me once a year on LinkedIn to check in

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Id make your profile private

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How did you find out?

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Their view on my Instagram stories

People are bored. People are always curious. I wouldn’t reach that much into it. Is he or she reaching out to you? If not then consider it like any other social media occurrence. Sounds like you want them to want to be back together with you? Social media isn’t the way to do it my friend. Assuming you’re both adults then if he or she wants that they’ll reach out.

Also to add onto a similar post, they’ll reach out and state their intentions. It’s 2021! Let’s put an end to childish behavior. For real! YOU shouldn’t settle on someone who wants to be with you by sending you cryptic likes through Instagram. That’s pathetic.

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