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My family is abusive fights a lot it is getting to my mind affecting my work and health ...... how to deal with it 😅

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People laugh at me because I don't live with my family and watch cartoons in my free time. Tbh I do it because ab sukoon hai, peeche se daaru peeke baap ke tamashe karne ki awaaz nahi aati lol.

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I watch cartoon cuz dats d only drama left

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Been there, seen that. Bahut scene hai. Only tip I have is, ignore karo, hadd tak ignore karo. I have been through it, and it ended up worse every time I get into it. Only solution is act dead and it will eventually pass.

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I feel many of us have been traumatized by our family members 😅 they should be a role model for us rather they end up being the exact person we hate

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I 100% understand what you have to go through and deal with and empathise with you. But please understand, your parents are also learning on the way and will/can make mistakes. The day we accept the fact, we tend to be at more peace. Has helped me, might you wanna start introspecting about it too. Nonetheless, more power to you and everybody else dealing w issues they don’t openly talk about

Move out I went to pune in August, lied about office opening and has been lying ever since. Abhi vapis aana pada 2 lakh case ho gaye to ab jaise hi kam honge Same jhooth vapis

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After reading the comments, it seems domestic violence is pretty common in all houses. I come from Tier 2/3 steel city but I never saw anything of this in the past 2 years of WFH... I can feel for all who posted negative feedback. May the force be with you. Please share your thoughts and feelings with us and don't take any drastic steps in rage or anger and please don't go into depression. I pray that all of you guys and girls find peace and happy moments asap. ✌️😊✅ PS - I am feeling very emotional while writing this. I really want to see happy faces and posts in this space without mental or physical stress!

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Move to another city. You’re not obligated to stay with them at the cost of your mental and physical health. Also, this can have long term implications as you can develop mental or physiological issues later in life. I went almost No Contact with my father as soon as I started working in ZS 4 years ago, it helped me a lot with my feelings of anxiety and depression. Then I started working endless hours so that I could stop thinking about him. It has worked for the most part.

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Facing something similar. Best thing is to move out soon. But rent cost and difficulty in living alone. Try to find some space at home where you can have some peace and quiet.

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I relate to you!! And so I shifted! I told my parents that office wants us to be at our base locations, and I moved out! It’s the best decision I have ever taken.

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Same bro 😎

Mine has been dysfucntional sinCe forever and its no joke. And there has been violence of all sorts and I dont have any tips. It has alrededor my personality. And has messed up with me big time

All of you must do something about it, reading all this is making me feel bad. I don’t know how y’all managing with it

Either fix the issue or just move out.

I generally ignore the flights by staying in a different room and I do not interfere in this. If it becomes too much then you should move out

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