My fiancé lost her innocence in college because I wanted to be a fuckboy and she loved me. I love her for changing me, but the kindness she had is gone. Where do I go from here?

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Jesus wtf is this

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What does any of that even mean?

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Sounds like 50 shades of grey storyline

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She will always have that doubt in the back of her mind that you'll cheat again. Can't be washed.

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"Lost her innocence"? Dude I think you need to grow up and get out of whatever kind of fantasy world you think you live in and start thinking of your girlfriend like a human being. Also, accept that people change as they grow up and maybe you aren't going to be partners for ever.

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Like you said her innocence is gone. She won't be like before ever again. If you want her to trust you, you have to work 2x as hard to prove to her that she's the only one for you and you can't so much as even look at another girl.

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Your relationship is laid on a foundation of trust- a foundation you destroyed. The relationship cannot be saved, and if you cheated on her, she deserves far better than you. You made a mistake, I get it, but that relationship can only turn toxic.

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Oh, and if you cheated on her, she didn't lose anything- it ain't her problem. You couldn't keep it in your pants. The problem is yours.

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Just pray lol

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Ha I'm with BAML

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@JP1 do you think it can ever go away, it seems to be getting better but there is still some doubt

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I didn't cheat on her, she liked me when I was dating someone else and I hardcore friendzoned her for a while but we hung out so much and used to work together so we ended up dating...but I she is still pissed that I used to talk about the chicks I slept with right in front of her...hindsight is 20/20 😂

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