My fiancé brought up threesomes twice within a couple days. We have also watched porn together and she always picks threesome videos. How do I tell if she actually wants to do it or if it’s some kind of test or if she just brought it up because she thought I would be into it?

People, I need dating advice. Based in a very conservative European place (just keep in mind). Have been here for more than four years now and didn't manage to have a relationship since then. I guess it's partly the place, partly that I have been struggling with the career / mental well being, but in a good place now. Any advice on what has been a successful dating strategy in your early thirties?

I need advice. I met an amazing guy on a dating app. We talked for 4 months and most of the convo was sexual. I fell so hard for him and it was because when we met up in person he was so kind, caring, and respectful towards me. He never initiated conversation with me first, but if I messaged him, he would respond back immediately. Then after 4 months he ghosted me on the app we were talking on. I texted him and he told me he had a gf. I am completely heartbroken. What kind of behavior was this?

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Would you guys think it’s appropriate for your fiancé’s family to still be following his ex on social media?

Spent $128 on Vaping stuff yesterday for the first time and learned one thing - vaping is to smoking as masturbating is to having sex.

I’m in consulting and I want to date. 30M in Indianapolis. Any fish out there?

*scores dream job* *is home first time since then* *is super eager to talk about job* Family: So any boyfriends out there? 😐

I'm not showing yet, but the idea of people touching my belly in the future freaks me out. Is there a way to handle unwanted touching (without being rude)?

Asking my friend to be one of my bridesmaids this weekend. Doing the others around Christmas. Should I have her wait until everyone has been asked before she posts on social media? Kinda seems like a weird rule unless that’s the norm now.

Has it ever happened to you that you meet someone and they say they want a “LTR” however they don’t even put the effort to say hi or ask you things?

Am I being too sensitive?

One group of friends I have are all white and they've been very insensitive to the asian hate that's going on lately. They kept saying it's overblown and how all of the videos they've seen are of non-whites attacking asians. I simply stated that I'm afraid for my parents because they're defenseless and they told me again that it's overblown and statistics don't lie.

It's pretty hurtful because racism is so real and I just don't understand the lack of compassion.

Anyone ever have an affair with a Partner? Male or Female? Did anyone find out? Is she just using me? How did it end?

Hi 🐟 I just moved up to Montreal area from the US. Any ideas on how to make new friends here. I'm a bit intimidated as I don't speak French. Any tips would be appreciated

Home for Christmas. My mom just told me my dad was diagnosed with some rare blood condition last week where your bone marrow stops producing enough new blood cells. More tests later this week, but until then no one else knows and we aren’t talking about it because dad doesn’t want to and they don’t want my grandma to know. Getting stoned in my old room because I don’t know what the fuck else I’m supposed to do right now. Yay!

This is the longest I’ve gone without any sexual activities with another person. I’m dying.

I have a confession to make: i dumped my boyfriend of 1 year because he is a real jerk. Then, i set up a profile for him on Grindr and i added his phone number in the profile, now he get dick pics

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

My husband seems to hate everything about me. He finds everything I talk about boring, and if I don’t talk, he calls me boring. I looked at my phone for 2 mins at a dinner and he started to scream at me for being phone obsessed. If I talk about work, he tells me I am pathetic. I am struggling to conceive and he keeps telling me I don’t care about having a family. I am so sad and exhausted all the time. What can I do?

I was referred for a position at Progressive a week ago but I haven’t received an email to apply, does it take long for the referral to go through?

Any one planned or attended an Indian wedding in Seattle or New Jersey area? Can you please personal message me? I’m planning my wedding in December and would like some insights. Thank you!

When 1 of 7 IEP students with a small group accommodation causes great disruption to the other 6 students trying to take a GenEd test in my resource room, can I stop letting him come to my room or test him in isolation away from the others? What is my best course of action?

Thoughts on using a thesaurus: useful resource, or uncreative crutch?

I find it hard to concept when it comes visual direction and execution. How can I get better at this? And how much should I leave it to my art partner and just focus on the copy/messaging?

What are your favorite sources for reference / background photography for briefs? Unsplash, Google Images, what else?

I’m in consulting and I want to date. 30M in Indianapolis. Any fish out there?

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Anyone switched from Becker to Wiley and regretted it? I did and though I appreciate the bite-sized lectures, I don't enjoy it as much as Becker. My access for Becker expired already and I don't want to spend 2k again 😭 such a tough choice to make but I feel like I'm not getting what I need from Wiley.

Hey All,
With experience of 8 years all around the security domain. Which is the best role : A) Blue Team ( IR and Threat Hunting) B ) Security Architecture

Anyone have advice for mid 30s professional with experience in film and photo. Looking to pivot to f/t agency? Not a huge social networker and might need some help with my resume.

Anyone looked at HUDSON36? Considering moving there this summer. Close to my office, but read some mixed reviews online.

What is your comfort surrounding prescribing medications to breastfeeding or pregnant women?

@Partners - Is it possible for your firm to match a competing offer? How would one best approach this?

Did an interview yesterday, as per my own judgment it was good & the interviewer asked me to prepare three references and said that I will be contacted by the HR team. Does this mean i got the job?

How long is it taking these days to get PERM approved? Average?

Are there any agencies that have a good positioning’s/taglines

What is your favourite bar or restaurant in washington DC area?

Is this normal? I need to adjust the way I see life.

I met this guy online and we clicked right away, started talking everyday and seeing each other. We talked about future plans but he told me from the start how he struggles talking about serious topics and I need to give a push.

I realized he never talks about the past. So I decided to know about his past, has he been into hook-up culture (which if you're for, u do u but I dont appreciate it especially at my age)

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What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Best relationship talks / videos you have ever seen?

Why is it so hard to join a group ? My boyfriend has his group of friends (both males and females) but every time we hang out with them, I feel left out because I don’t have history with them and they all have their inside jokes and stories. He said I need to try more to interact with them but honestly I feel like certain friends mostly his female bestie is trying to not include me. I’ve tried to become friends with her but she’s not putting in effort to get to know me … I need advice.

Been with a girl for few months, really enjoyed moments that we shared together and barely got into any fights. But, somehow somewhat, I don’t see that we share the same vision in our career path. She wants to settle for administration roles while I want work & travel to multiple countries, really hard for her to find those opportunities within her current roles. I like her personality a lot but I feel like really hard to share interesting topics/ my works with her. Any advice please?

My husband seems to hate everything about me. He finds everything I talk about boring, and if I don’t talk, he calls me boring. I looked at my phone for 2 mins at a dinner and he started to scream at me for being phone obsessed. If I talk about work, he tells me I am pathetic. I am struggling to conceive and he keeps telling me I don’t care about having a family. I am so sad and exhausted all the time. What can I do?

I’m a 28 year old male, living with gf. I think I’ve got covid - very feverish, cough, hot and cold sweats, pains etc. When I get sick I turn into a massive baby - definition of “man flu”. Is this a massive problem for women (ie a big turn off)? Luckily I only get sick once every 2-3 years, but this feels awful and I’m being a massive sook and I can’t help it lol…

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months now. For context she's still in grad school (we have a 2 year age gap) and I'm struggling to feel physically attracted to her. I have a good job, decent amounts of stress, I like to work out, spend time with friends, and am very outgoing. She's super sweet, kind, sensitive, and brilliant. I find her attractive but I find the fact that she's always up in my business and available to me unattractive. She also just got an amazing job in another state (1/2)

** Really need your advise**
So my gf 26 and I 27 (m) broke up a month back. We booked a concert long time ago and that’s up next week. Our breakup was mutual but this girl is special. I have tried over and over again to rekindle but she said it’s done. The concert is next week and I really want her there. Should I ask her one last time or should I let her go?

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

I split with my BF a year ago (his decision) after four years together (off and on). In your opinion, should all ties be cut? I’m struggling to tell him to stop contacting me.

A friend of mine told me I should have Narcan on hand for my boyfriend who does coke sometimes. I'm firmly against it. He knows I hate when he does it and I don't want the emotional weight of carrying it around in my purse. Like, if he's going to do that, he should carry his own damn Narcan. Am the asshole? She thinks I'm being cruel since it can be lifesaving and you can get it for free.

Has this ever happened to you that each time you meet your bf/gf , there is extreme nervousness from both sides ? It’s a good kind of nervousness (shyness , awkwardness) and almost feels like meeting someone you have known forever for the first time?

Help - want to propose to the GF soon. I wanna buy a nice ring possibly as a surprise, but have no clue about the steps of this thing. What's the proper sequence (this is my first guess).

1. Ask her parents
2. Discuss about the ring/stone etc?
3. Buy the actual ring
4. Plan a surprise proposal

For added context, we already discussed the wedding and also possibly going for lab diamonds.

TIA for your help 🙏