My fiancé today said he considers himself the marginally better looking one of us two. I’ve always considered us comparable - he’s slightly facially better but my body is better. Idk but it irked me - might be outdated but feel men should find their partner more attractive. Should I care?

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Yes!!! I commented on one of the posts here that I have officially decided to stay single after reading all the posts here.

Who says this kind of stuff to someone they supposedly love? People need to learn to bite their tongue.

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Did he let you know he thinks you are a 5-6. And because he lost weight, he is more attractive than you now?

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Brutal!!

Y’all date some of the worst people

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You are correct. A man should never say he’s better looking compared to his partner. Stronger, funnier - yes; better looking, smarter - NO!!
How is he so clueless???

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A2 That makes sense. I totally get joking around with your partner. That being said, I usually can tell when a joke I made is taken personally by my partner and then I know it’s something I shouldn’t joke about. Tons of other things to joke about. Maybe your partners have thicker skin and that’s cool too.

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I guess this is what happens when teenagers get engaged

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Eh. As long as he adores you, who cares. Maybe he’s a snack and knows it

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Also matters if he said it playfully or not

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Comeback "At least I possess enough common sense not to say such a thing"

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How does this even come up in conversation

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Do consultants ever grow up or do they go straight from high school to Deloitte

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We are actually grown in a lab as fully formed adults with a focus on beauty, intelligence, and ego.

Having to grow up with the “others” would be too demeaning for us to handle. We would never get the commoner stink to go away.

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So this is what a relationship is like these days? wow I love the single life 🥳

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I'm a man and I'm better looking that 95% of women and am always the hotter partner. I would never voice this though. We both know and saying aloud would crush them.

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Not a d!ck pic either, although I’m sure you have an album sent aside.

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You are comparing apples to oranges here OP. Don’t read too much into it! don’t care and enjoy your day 😊

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Or melons to bananas.
Or lemons to pickles.


I’ll show myself out.

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Nah just say you’re the better looking one. It’s a playful tease

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Tell him this to peg him down a notch. “Ok you are cuter but you are not that great in bed.” Or “yeah sure, but small 🍆 tho”

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I think he was teasing you.

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Did he say this unprovoked? Could he potentially be a narcissist? Did you let him know that it bothered you when he said it?

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If looks are the only thing of importance to you in a partner, then sure… care.

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Depends on the context in which he said it. Seems odd to be out of the blue, but maybe there’s a reason/something you said or did.

Also, even if you’re about comparable he will most likely get better looking over time with age than you will. It’s just science.

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