My friend from college is getting married and I feel so behind 🙁 she’s younger then me. Is anyone in this city serious about dating?

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Nope. No one is. Wanna go out?

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M here… Yes, I’m actively dating seriously and the women I’ve been on dates with have been serious too. What have you experienced that has made you feel this way?

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OP, I’m willing to put in effort but what I’ve found is that most women don’t want to meet up too quickly. This causes the conversations to become dull and die out as you can’t really gauge personality, tone, vibe, etc. I’ve had just a few women from apps be willing to actually go on a date. I’ve found more women from this all be willing to meet up more than Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, etc.

I actually just approach women wherever I’m at to find dates. That appears to work better for me personally. I would agree with the previous statement. If you make yourself approachable, you’ll find there are plenty of guys who will approach.

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OP, why are you mentally putting yourself in a race that doesn't exist?
You are on your own journey. Live it and make the most of each moment single or in a relationship or married.

Yes, me (M)

Are you desi

Same, definitely serious about dating.

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