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She’s honest about it and isn’t hiding it from him. He is fine with it. There is no need for you to insert yourself into this situation.
Yes it’s his business...his friend asked for his opinions on it, and he’s looking out for his friend. Nothing wrong with that
Ya it’s not fine, but here’s the most important part..... it’s none of your business.
His friend brought the issue to him....
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If they’re honest with each other and both people are happy, then why should you insert your beliefs into their relationship?
Because maybe his friend isnt fine with it and is just saying so because he doesnt know what else to think and OP is being a good friend for asking the question to gain insight.
Im shocked how many people saying your consern over your friends happiness isnt your business. Im also surpised how many think asking a question on a message board to gain insight is the same as pushing your views onto their life.
It appears that you feel your friend is being manipulated into thinking it’s ok, but to be honest maybe they truly are ok with it. Hard to tell, but ultimately if it makes your friend uncomfortable it’s up to them to address it with their gf. I might feel similarly to you, but would have a hard time meddling if by all accounts my friend is happy. Tough spot for sure though, it’s good that you care about your friend’s well-being.
He asked for my opinion and I shared it and was getting other perspectives.
How serious of a relationship is it? How long have they been together?
If it’s still a new-ish relationship (less than a year), I would be less concerned about this than if it was longer term.
Ultimately, if he is asking you about it, he is probably not ok with it. Instead of giving advice or opinions from internet strangers, I would ask him questions to see if I could get to the root of what he is really feeling.
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You should make out with her
Classy
I have a lot of gay friends and I’ve never made out with any of them. Are you sure he’s not bi?
Sounds dicey, but none of your business.
I’d tread lightly, especially since it sounds like everyone is aware
Not your business.
uhh I did this with my gay best friend (we're both female) and then fell in love with her and left my bf for her. He was super supportive of it though, he's still my favourite human..
BCG1- to be clear, I wanted to break up the minute I was questioning. We argued about this a lot, he wanted the open relationship, NOT ME.
When you say gay best friend, is her best friend female or male?
Hmmm interesting strategy 😈
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It’s not fine for me but I wouldn’t insert myself in the friend’s relationship...especially if he knows about it and is cool with it. He’s aware of what he got into and I’m sure he can take care of himself
Is this one of those “asking for a friend” AKA I am the “friend” type of questions?
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This literally sounds like me! But now I’m single. Lol.