A strange part of me misses the NYC hustle.
Traveling to Compton. Any places i should visit?
I am just happy to be employed
I have been allocated to a project and it starts tomorrow, no one from the project reached out to me yet. I did try to ping one of the concerned person but didn't get a reply back. I am not sure what to do now. If someone has some suggestions. How does it work in here?
What’s Zambezi LA like?
Funny advice or words of wisdom going into 2020
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Anyone have experience with slow rising HCG? Mine went from 41k to 58k over 4 days. My OB is concerned with those numbers. Curious if anyone else was similar.
Gold on Delta and got an e-mail that I was upgraded to Comfort+. But there are 2 seats open in First. Why was I not upgraded straight to First?
Fish I need some help and advice. I fell off the wagon last weekend (sober two years and change with alc) and I cheated on my SO of three years. We live together and she has been by my side through
Someone I used to work with wrote pretty bad feedback in my recent review. I quizzed him about it (without him knowing I knew it was him) and he said ‘the person that wrote it is cowardly’ and that he’d never write it, even though I know for a fact he did. Why would someone behave like this? Why can’t be a grown up and own up to it? Should I ask him directly why he wrote it?
Why are boomers strolling around outside running errands? Is it time to reopen schools and fire up the economy?
Hello folks, am looking for an opportunity, i have 5.5 years of work experience in identity and access management domain. Please find my profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ravi-singh-bajwa-346126166
Anyone else using the Welltory app? I enjoy using it but the data indicates I am usually in the red zone, which is definitely not healthy. Based on the limited knowledge I have, I suspect I’ve got chronic stress. Aside from Welltory, lmk if you have any tips to turn off the fight or flight zone.
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Not a confession, but just realized there are a lot of consulting firm offices in Kiev.
Praying for you guys 🙏
P.s.: does anyone know how things are going there right now?
Do you ever feel that you have achieved everything in life and you have nothing left to live for?
When I was young, I had ambitions. I have passion. I have energy. And there are so many things I want to do, I want to achieve, I want to experience.
But nowadays, I feel like now that all of those are there… I can’t seem to find what’s the next big thing to chase after…
I could never share a kitchen with someone who doesn’t believe in washing dishes by hand before the dishwasher.
Prediction: The Firm finds a way to establish that the rumors have been true all along and Harry is not Charles’s son.
I'm 11kg overweight for my height with a BMI of around 28.5. I'm hiking, walking up various peaks and ensuring that I get my heart racing the past 3 days. In some muddy/slippery places, I put weight on my left leg to prevent a 60 ft drop, knee took a lot of impact. Pity that attempting to be more active also leads to injury.
What do you recommend, a diet using the calorie deficit method? Looking to go back to gym, hit the heavy bag & lift weights from Monday.
When your friend is on the verge of blacking out and you see him buy another round of tequila shots for the girls we just met
I have my first ever case study interview in a week! Does anyone have any tips for how to quickly study and prepare? Any advice is appreciated!
Had a great date with a guy last week and he mentioned going out again soon. Neither of us texted after and have had busy weekends. Do I text or would he have texted if interested?
What was you dream job as a kid and what do you actually do as a career now?
I'll go first.
Broadway actor or a grocery store checkout clerk. Something so satisfying about scanning the items and hearing the "Beep!"
I'm a tax analyst, but gd the joy I get at self-checkout now..
536 applicants. Damn. I wanted to apply but I’ll just go be sad and never make real money. That’s like winning the lotto… 🥺
The older I get, the harder it is for me to have the mental capacity to text people back. I reply back rather quickly but eventually look back and realize I didn’t even answer the question that was asked or totally disregarded what someone said. Also the older I get, the more uncomfortable I get around people I’m not very close to. I used to be very social and have many groups of friends but now I think I may have social anxiety. Is anyone else experiencing something similar?
Mostly for the guys here... Do you ever wonder if someone's commitment to you is predicated on your job? My faith in humanity is having some trouble rn Recently found out that pretty much every one of my nurse friend's coworkers has been in some kind of sugar daddy type relationship.
i’m sick of going through many unsuccessful recruiting processes smh can someone just hire me plz ;-;
There is a woman in the cubicle across from me chewing her food so loud I want to puke 🙃
If a man doesn’t want the baby and you’re pregnant, I don’t think you should have the baby. Even if you’re independent and financially set, the emotional toll for that child of having a father who never wanted you and your own emotional toll of it too just aren’t worth it imo🤷♀️
Went on couple of dates with this guy and found him attractive and fun. Few things seemed off and he works in IB and I wasn’t sure if his demanding professional life was for me. My anxiety got better of me and I messaged him saying it wouldn’t work. Now, I miss talking to him :(
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She’s honest about it and isn’t hiding it from him. He is fine with it. There is no need for you to insert yourself into this situation.
Yes it’s his business...his friend asked for his opinions on it, and he’s looking out for his friend. Nothing wrong with that
Ya it’s not fine, but here’s the most important part..... it’s none of your business.
His friend brought the issue to him....
If they’re honest with each other and both people are happy, then why should you insert your beliefs into their relationship?
Because maybe his friend isnt fine with it and is just saying so because he doesnt know what else to think and OP is being a good friend for asking the question to gain insight.
Im shocked how many people saying your consern over your friends happiness isnt your business. Im also surpised how many think asking a question on a message board to gain insight is the same as pushing your views onto their life.
It appears that you feel your friend is being manipulated into thinking it’s ok, but to be honest maybe they truly are ok with it. Hard to tell, but ultimately if it makes your friend uncomfortable it’s up to them to address it with their gf. I might feel similarly to you, but would have a hard time meddling if by all accounts my friend is happy. Tough spot for sure though, it’s good that you care about your friend’s well-being.
He asked for my opinion and I shared it and was getting other perspectives.
How serious of a relationship is it? How long have they been together?
If it’s still a new-ish relationship (less than a year), I would be less concerned about this than if it was longer term.
Ultimately, if he is asking you about it, he is probably not ok with it. Instead of giving advice or opinions from internet strangers, I would ask him questions to see if I could get to the root of what he is really feeling.
You should make out with her
I have a lot of gay friends and I’ve never made out with any of them. Are you sure he’s not bi?
Sounds dicey, but none of your business.
I’d tread lightly, especially since it sounds like everyone is aware
Not your business.
uhh I did this with my gay best friend (we're both female) and then fell in love with her and left my bf for her. He was super supportive of it though, he's still my favourite human..
BCG1- to be clear, I wanted to break up the minute I was questioning. We argued about this a lot, he wanted the open relationship, NOT ME.
When you say gay best friend, is her best friend female or male?
Hmmm interesting strategy 😈
It’s not fine for me but I wouldn’t insert myself in the friend’s relationship...especially if he knows about it and is cool with it. He’s aware of what he got into and I’m sure he can take care of himself
Is this one of those “asking for a friend” AKA I am the “friend” type of questions?
This literally sounds like me! But now I’m single. Lol.