My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

My now ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years and I broke up a few weeks ago, and over time I’ve realized some of the bad habits that I had that really heavily contributed to the fall out of our relationship

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

My partner is a cancer survivor, and I brought her in to talk to my kids. I had her stay for one of our GSA meetings and did something I have never done before--I answered questions about our journey together. It felt very liberating, but still scary.

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

Any single parents in here? If so, and you want support and understanding from other single parents please join the new “single-parents” bowl. Especially as busy season is here.

Salam, I was in a 3Y relationship, it’s been few months, I live alone. Don’t have tons of friend so I find myself lonely after work. I burst in tears randomly multiple times a week and I cry out loud. I also have constant dreams of her most of the time normal dreams. I feel like I have little life left since I’m 39, I don’t have any direction in life. I try to pray 5 times and started to recite Quran. Any advice for me pls? I don’t have peace in my heart and I feel very empty inside.

I got over him so quickly, I wonder if I loved him..

Any tips for staying motivated when the job hunt gets especially long and disheartening?

My SO has been job hunting on and off for what feels like almost a year now and I can tell he is fizzling out. He’s trying to make a big career change, which requires someone to take a bit of a chance on him. He’s putting in the effort and has gotten so so close a number of times to reaching his goal - just nothing has fully planned out yet. Want to be as supportive as I can be without being pushy

What is my buddy?? What kind of help I can expect from him??

When did you know you were going to marry your partner? Was it early on into the relationship?

One of those days where I really can’t stand my job - I’m even entertaining ideas of becoming a baby mama to a rich dude so I can collect child support and don’t have to work here to make money. Ridiculous, I know

American society would be in a better place if all of the “woke” young Americans of European descent used the same energy to talk with their loved ones who are bigoted, racist, and/or sexist. That’s the hard work that means more than taking selfies while protesting and posting on social media for dopamine hits.

Found a really nice house in a good school district but with 0% Asian population (let alone desis). Wanted to get people’s perspective on sending kid to such a school. Kid is 3 year old.

Hello everyone,
I’m supporting a mom who had a 2 month supply of breast milk in her freezer but the freezer stopped working at some point on Thursday after 5pm. I believe she shouldn’t re-freeze the milk at this point. She said the milk is cool but not frozen anymore. Do you have any suggestions please? Can she re-freeze it?

How can I make friends in Chicago?

I'm planning to move with family to Kochi inorder to join in one of the company in infopark. Please suggest good place to get a flat or house to stay with small kids.

Hot take: There are no soulmates.

There are people who you are more compatible with than others. Every relationship requires a ton of work.

Being aligned on how you want to live your life and raise your kids is what matters most.

Is a post-PhD gap year to travel and be reminded of what life is like a bad idea?

Any tips on helping my remote bond/feel more connected with each other?

What is “Product Leader” at Amazon. How’s it different from Product Manager?

Ibm, capegemini or Cognizant.....which is better

ibm 7b role 26L

capegemini manager,30 including variable(3L)

Cognizant manager, 27.5 variable 1.5L


please help .Tata Consultancy IBM Capgemini Cognizant

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

Has anyone spent years working in one state and offered a remote position for another state? Was it hard to adjust to the new state's rules?

Any recommendations on relocating to Hawaii? I am registered for the Hawaii bar but currently based out of Los Angeles and practicing in California as a licensed attorney.

Brooks brothers or CT for dress shirts?

Need Jeans advice… 32 waist but athletic bum and legs. I’ve had the same physique for past ten years but the BR, JCrew jeans Made now don’t fit. Is there a brand that accommodates more junk in the trunk with a small waist? Even Lululemon 32-32 ABC pants barely have enough room so you can imagine how jeans don’t fit well.

How can a company get “Great place to work” tag with following culture

1. All leadership people with no manners and ethics
2. Hustle porn environment with zero quality focused product development
3. Employee who are resigning they are treated as enemy. Their salary/bonus gets blocked
4. Tremendous work pressure and employees are force to stay till 2 AM in office and again return at 9AM in the morning
5. 1:1 manager to employee ratio
6. Playing with freshers career by hire n fire

Im unable to attend interview for Infosys due to some personal reason..they are saying okay we ll schedule it for next drive..can anyone tell any tentative date..or something when can I expect next interview?Infosys

Hello Fishes,

Its been ages since I started searching for a job.. The other day I got a call from ADP after asking all the details they asked for my Aadhar and date of birth.. Just now I got a call saying they are from TCS and they asked my Pan number and date of birth. Is it a common practice to collect that information?

Anyone have recs for noise canceling headphones they love?

Does anyone have any suggestions for a good electronic standing desk for an apartment? Having trouble finding one that fits in small spaces

Posting on behalf of a friend who works for Deloitte USDC office.

Currently on H1B visa.

He wants to move from USDC to Deloitte Core due to location preference and family reasons. Since USDC is only at three locations. Core has wider range of location options.

has anyone here who is on visa moved from USDC to Core, if yes then how tough is it and how long is the process?

Hi. I had my HR discussion today .so till when i can expect the offer letter ?

Thoughts on jumping to a small independent agency? I'm leaving a small-ish agency where I was only working on one massive account, hoping to get more exposure to different therapeutic areas and more interesting projects.
Had offers for bigger name agencies as well, but went with my gut to the small agency. Mistake?

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

If a guy stopped responding to me mid convo, would it be okay to maybe message him again in a month or so? Don’t want to double message as I don’t know him that well

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

At what point do you think you should move in with your significant other or at least talk about it?

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

Looking for advice on personal space in a relationship. Been in thus relationship for 6 months. I date here and there but have not been in a serious relationship in a long time. Been working late M-F since COVID started. I usually call my gf after work or before I go to sleep and we talk for an hr or so each night. And on Fridays I go to her place right after work and stay the weekend. I’m finding a lack of my own time because it’s either work or her throughout the week and weekends...

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

How often do you see your significant other when you’re dating as an official couple?