My GF wants me to watch her with another woman. Now just need to find the right one

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

Just broke up with my partner of four years, nervous about living by myself in a pandemic, but kind of looking forward to it? Any tips? (I’m in NYC)

what age did you get married?

Any tips on helping my remote bond/feel more connected with each other?

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What do boys actually look for in an arranged marriages ...been seeing lots of families asking the dowry the first thing even without actually talking with each other and rejecting if the sibling has inter caste marriage.

Ladies - have you had any success joining women's groups or meeting other women who golf/want to learn? Most of my friends are not interested and a lot of women at the club seem to have their own little cliques etc. Not sure what to do

Need gift ideas that one can only buy in California. I am making a trip to CA first time after I got into a serious relationship, Bf won’t be able to come along for a reason. I want to get him something memorable. He is into fitness and health. All ideas welcome , no $ limit

** Really need your advise**
So my gf 26 and I 27 (m) broke up a month back. We booked a concert long time ago and that’s up next week. Our breakup was mutual but this girl is special. I have tried over and over again to rekindle but she said it’s done. The concert is next week and I really want her there. Should I ask her one last time or should I let her go?

Does anyone get emotionally overwhelmed when expressing their feelings? I can’t seem to control it and always break down into tears just trying to tell someone how I feel.

What do you irrationally and harshly judge people for?

I assume that people who don’t rerack their weights at the gym allow themselves to live in filth and squalor and had their mothers wipe their bums until they were in middle school.

I’m staying at my friends house and her dog won’t stop humping all of the pillows. I’ve tried to stop him many times but he’s strong and persistent. I’m hysterically laughing and have no idea how to stop this 🤣

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

My SO told me he wanted to take a break and I told him that we should rather break up for good but never heard back from him. During the break, I met couple of guys and things happened. Now my SO wants to be back in my life and I told him what I have been up-to. I gave him the classic “But we were on a break” line and he got more upset. I don’t think our relationship is salvageable at this point. It feels so weird few months ago we were so madly in love and now we are in this situation.

My boomer mother is retired HR exec. Whenever I ask for recommendations on address situations at work she recommends I get over it because I work from home. My new manager has boundary issues and talking it over with my boomer, I mean mother, I was told “who gets to do laundry at lunchtime?” Mmmkay, just because I had to buy the desk I sit at doesn’t mean I don’t work. 🤬 Burn my childhood home down or put her in a home?

I found some extremely provocative and inappropriate TikTok’s of my cousin’s kid today (8 years old). I’m genuinely concerned. My first instinct was to call my cousin (whom I’m close with, like a sis) and tell her but after giving it some time, I’m on the fence. About a year ago, I found inappropriate TikTok’s of a close friend’s kid and told my friend as soon as I found out. She sounded appreciative that I let her know but TBH, our relationship hasn’t been the same and we rarely talk anymore.

What are some nice ways to friendzone someone? Lol

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

Should I take my girlfriend back after she drunkenly kissed a random guy at a bar?
We were at a bar with friends and I left the bar because I was ready to go home. She stayed with friends and I later found out that she kissed a random guy and her friend had to break it up. We are 3 months in and I feel betrayed. She has assured to me that it was not cheating and just a mistake. She loves me and wants to stay together and swore to do better. I’m torn because I feel like all trust is gone.

Anyone ever have success in negotiating for lower hours during a lateral move?

Outside of HBS and GSB, any other programs good for post-MBA career in VC? Haas?

Hi, how does a h1b transfer work? my current visa expires in 2024,but I’m on my first 3 years. If I do a transfer now, will the expiry date be the same? Or will it be 3 years out from the approval date of the new transferred h1b visa?

To all heavy Excel users, what brand laptop are you using and how’s it working for you?

what a good percentage of payout in SaaS sales? Is 10% commission solid?

Seeking advice on next move. In the next few weeks my current contract is up and won't be renewed.

I'm 3yrs into my career and looking to either move into something more technical or front facing. Think QA automation,or Cloud Engineering

I've also found a passion for Development and considering going the freelance route. (Shopify Development)

Any recommendations on which path I should head towards.

Also has anyone ever heard of a company called Careerist, are they good or a waste of time

I have joined Verizon in June 2022, will I be eligible for this year as my manager I don't need to fill my goal sheet as I am still in 6 month's probation. Kindly help me to understand.

What is salary range/band of L7 Engineer profiles i.e. Sr Software Engineer, in MasterCard India ?

Networking...

I have the hardest time doing this. I do well with folks on my own project, but going to events to make random small talk with new people just isn’t me. How do you all handle it?

Does anyone see chief of staff roles in product within their org? Are these actually serious roles or only a glorified admin?

8 weeks later and I am still testing positive for covid. But since I am symptom free for over 3 weeks I can return back to work. They say I am not contagious...i do have antibodies. But I am still nervous about spreading it.

Top certs to get for dev ops engineer? Currently have AWS-SAA and security +. Would other certs help in getting a pay bump or is experience alone enough?

Opinions on people like Bill Nye and Neil Degrasse Tyson? Do you consider them to be “real” scientists?

Just curious - everyone on here who talks about depression issues, etc: is it mainly contributed from work related things? Or life in general? 🤔

Hi Fishes!

Let me introduce myself.
I am a Finance professional with 4+ years of experience in 3 varied yet interconnected fields, and am now looking for a suitable opportunity in Singapore.

Any help would be appreciated.

Thank You!

What is the salary for Managers in the Consulting practice? Experience hire vs someone who grew up in the firm?

Any single women who want to chat. Bi/lesbian only. Philly/New York. Age 31

I really want to experience a sex resort. Has anyone been to one? It looks fun & care free

Sometimes I want to start arguments because I’m bored.

It has been a slog but I made it! I am now a Chief. Time to see real names behind all the crazy posts😤

Also on a side note, what’s everyone’s highest subway surfer score? Mine is 601,233.

Where did you meet your SO?

For those of you who had a hair transplant young did you think it was worth it?
I'm 24, and have balding since undergrad.

what other bowls are you all spending your time in around here (aside from kinky / single bowls—i’m well aware, don’t worry 😉) just wondering if there are any hidden gems out there that hold a candle to this one. i’ve got a lot of chores to procrastinate today

I asked this girl to drinks/HH. She ordered a full 3-course dinner. I paid but I felt really salty about it. What would you feel?

Finished the PBS Ken Burns 3 part doc on The US and the Holocaust. Wow... Everyone should watch it.

Sometimes when I’m feelin like I’m a real dipsh*t, I pull up that clip of Mike the Situation bombing at the roast or Donald Trump and I instantly feel better.

The whole reason I joined this app was for the consultants bowl that I can't seem to access 🙃