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My girlfriend just gave me a hall pass to sleep with 5 more girls since she's slept with 5 more guys than me. Is this a trap...

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She's slept with 5 (or more) more than you and probably has a side piece as we speak. She just opened the escape hatch. Jump. And don't look back. This is for her to ease her guilt and nothing more.

Sounds like she already has a soft bed to land in to help her get over the relationship anyway.

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@SA1... no one called her a slut. Chill.

Common knowledge people are not always truthful about their # of partners. And no one who actually REALLY wants to be with someone offers a hall pass with no consequences. It's a trap regardless of what her number is or what she is doing on the side.

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Yes

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Just dump her now. This won't end well.

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This won't end well. Maybe she's sleeping on the side, and feels guilty.

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why were you talking about numbers? that conversation never ends well

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How many guys have you slept with?

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She's got some side action going on. My ex did the exact same thing to justify her actions.

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She's a thot. Dump her.

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Know what kind of man asks about a number?

A dumb man

if she said its 5 more, probably 10 or 15 more

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Are you 16? You both are counting partners? In an effort to be equal? Oh barother 🙄

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Yo Avon's in the house! Where stringer at?

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Stringer is a traitor

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Slut shaming is so real. Maybe she was just keeping it open and honestly wanted him to have the opportunity... just because she's slept with more people doesn't make her a slut. Talk about a double standard.

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Fuck all other idiots. People don't know shit. Fuck everyone you can while you are with her and fuck her till you can. Think beyond that once you're there

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This is a gentle reminder that my life isn't nearly as fucked up as it could be.

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Coming from a woman...she really doesn't care about you if she said that. Also who cares about numbers??? There is so much context that goes along with how many people you slept with. That context makes up the person you are- not the #!!!!!

Also wrap it up! Good practice in general but sounds like she's seeing other guys.

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Do you want to do it ?

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As a woman, that's really messed up. You should be dating each other based on shared values and respect, not a "tit for tat."

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Leave, now. Your d has been to a constantly revolving p

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