My husband and I are both consultants so we travel for work. I notice when we are away he becomes really emotionally distant (even when I try to message/ call). It takes a while to get him to be open again when we are together again. Over the summer we were able to spend 2 months without travelling, which was great and I felt really close to him. Last week I travelled to see my family for a few days (4 days) and when I got back he was distant again. He switches so quickly that often I feel (tbc)

Hi Fishes,
What is the hiring procedure in delta airlines for senior Software Engineer?

Ambitious working Moms who have reentered the workforce after a break (which you were forced into taking) , how long until you were able to get over the negative feelings of inadequacy and regret over feeling left behind compared to your peers, I feel like I'm regularly apologizing for not knowing something I should have for my age/position?

First time Dad and my 15 month old keeps running up the stairs at my in-laws place and they keep encouraging it. Stairs are almost 10 inches high with nothing underneath and I’m worried that he might slip and fall in between the stairs. My FIL is a bit of a know-it-all and keeps insisting it’s safe and I don’t agree. What do I do? Don’t want to fight the entire house full of people about this and kid enjoys it too much and cries a lot if I/we prevent him from climbing

Has anyone’s mom or MIL moved in with them to help care for a baby? Would love to hear perspectives. Overwhelmed by consulting and unsure if husband and I will be able to manage 2 consulting careers with no help.

Do Product Managers travel a lot?

Looking to book one night at a Marriott property in chicago to celebrate anniversary with my wife - mostly deciding between the Gwen and the Ritz. Which would you choose? (Assume price doesn’t matter)

Anyone have expiring united pluspoints?? And want to start the gift giving season early? 😊

Hello Fishes,

Did anyone attend interview from Delta Airlines recently?

For those of you who are married, how do you address your mother in law? Do you call them mom? Do you call them by their first name?

Starting as an SM in S&A on the strategy side in the next few weeks. What does travel budget generally look like? I understand first class flights are a no go domestic which sucks, but hoping hotel and food budget makes up for it. Also, does Deloitte pay for platinum Amex or is that out of pocket?

Regarding travel to client sites for stem OPT; what happens if you travel? I don’t get it. Is it that you need to be in the home office when an agent comes to verify or what’s the deal?

How many points for being trapped in a Marriott Autograph collection elevator for 1 hour (currently trapped)?

At how many nights do Marriott members earn a free night?

Job Offer A (Not Consulting) - 160Base+profit sharing+10%-12%Bonus (Corporate office Location is 20 miles east of brooklyn bridge but they have a lot of work in manhattan, brooklyn). I might have to lease a car and travel to work from Dumbo. Good company, Good people.

Job Offer B (Consulting) - Not existing yet but at it is in the brews - Consulting in Manhattan at a good firm where I thought would open up opportunities at an MBB in the long run. (120KBase)

Am I giving up my dream with A :?

I am considering buying a Eurail pass to travel for 10 days around Europe in the winter months . Is the pass easy to use ? Is it worth the money ?

I recently received a referral to a credit card company..... and the hiring manager simply looked at how many years of experience I have on my resume without even looking at my credentials.

For shits and giggles I submitted the same resume with another name and put Stanford as my college and he asked me to interview. Thinking of posting this on Linkedin so I can get on #linkedinCringe ahahah

This is not work related, but is delta 8 worth it? I am considering getting a vape pen, but the cost seems a little expensive.

I was offered a promotion but due to internal policies the max comp they could offer was way under market value. I countered and was denied. I took time to think about it, being disappointed I applied for other jobs. Monday came and I decided to accept the offer. A week before starting my new position I got a call for one of the jobs I applied for. I am now going through to the last round of interviews the same week I start my new position. Would it be bad practice to accept another offer now?

Why would investing in firms with higher EBITDA margins be better? Operationally inefficient firms could theoretically have more room to grow and improve so wouldn’t there be greater opportunities there?

anyone currently working at GT right now on an H1B visa? Would love to get your advice on a few things.

Recruiters, where do you find most of the candidates you ultimately make offers to?

What is on your Christmas wishlist this year? I really want a Roomba.

Hey all! I am trying to get creative with recruiting in Chester/Richmond, VA area. What are some great sites I should post on?

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I got an offer for Deloitte as a new consultant.
I applied for EY and PwC for business transformation and management consulting respectively.

My offer for Deloitte expires soon. I emailed both firms on yesterday politely asking if there's an update.
The thing is I'm more attracted to PwC/EY lines i applied to.

Has anyone heard back from these firms? I don't want to burn any bridges w/ Deloitte by accepting and then decline if a better off comes along.

Do you share with friends/family that you're seeing a psychiatrist or are taking anti-anxiety/depression meds?

Slalom 🐠, friend got contacted by a recruiter from Slalom, does anyone know if they apply for new H1s & what the interview process is like for a Data Analytics person? Any info appreciated!Thank you!

Heading towards my first (and hopefully last) divorce. I'm resentful of my career because I feel like it was a huge contributing factor to the failure of my marriage.

Has anyone tried these low sugar wines? Like Dry Farm Wines etc? They are billed as being cleaner, organic, low alcohol, etc etc

Is there any way we change project inside tavisca??

I got an offer from yashi consulting services Pvt Ltd (ycspl) that's totally work from home and its haryana based company . Currently I live in mumbai. So it's good to join company
Please suggest

Went into big 4 tech consulting out of undergrad, but at this point I feel burnt out. I've gotten great reviews but I'm just not happy with long hours and travel. Any recommendations for career...

What is the right salary for a tech operations guy with 7+ years of experience?

Qualifications: MCA, MBA (IIM), M. Tech (IIT), B. Tech, PMP, CSM, SAFe POPM

How can I find who advised a specific M&A deal? I can usually find the investment bank, but never the professionals from that bank who were responsible.

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

If someone ghosts you but you still have an article of their clothing, and they never asked for it back, should you just donate it?

Anybody here that few up in household where mom or dad had an affair? How did it affect your romantic relationships/beliefs/outcomes in adulthood?

How do people stay satisfied while their consultant spouse is traveling. Do you just wait, use the phone or self serve? Please I need advice

Hello hello,

Had my induction today at my new company (asset manager). Really liked HR girl who led the meeting, chatted a bit after, loved her smile.

How can I take it to the next step? Was thinking of coffee/grabbing lunch in our canteen, but sounds like a risky move (especially given she's HR..).

Thoughts?

Sometimes I wish when you were with a partner, there was a very clear sign that the person doesn’t love you so that you know it’s time to walk away. My partner and I keep having the same problems, and when I express he’s making me feel a certain way he says he didn’t mean it like that obviously. But when i say something and explain that it’s not how I meant it he doesn’t care and proceeds to label me as an unkind person who doesn’t support/love him unconditionally. *continued in comments*

Best friend has just told me she’s cheating on her husband with another guy for 6 months- and the other guy doesn’t even know she’s married. She said she feels no regret. Apparently she loves her husband, but just needs more than he can give and she doesn’t want the other guy to know because then it’ll make it more complicated. She said she just wanted to tell someone so she can discuss it. I am totally shocked and have no idea what to say- it was all so ‘matter of fact’

I need some advice. I met a guy on a dating app. We talked for a few months before meeting up in person about a couple weeks ago (we live in different states that’s why it took so long to meet up). Anyways we hungout everyday that he was in my city. We casually talked about him visiting again soon. We talked everyday since until a few days ago. He just stopped responding… he’s been online though… what do you guys think?

Anyone in a LDR ? I’ve been in a LDR for 5 years now, and I’m really sad about how long it takes for me and my partner to build our future projects. I knew it would take this long bc we live in 2 different countries, two nationalities. It’s just taking so much time and I’m loosing patience, but my partner is blaming me for being negative/not being patient and not supporting us at the moment. I’d love to discuss with someone living a similar experience.

Question: the guy I’ve been dating for a while is a little awkward with pda & stuff. I try to be understanding & respect boundaries ( so not too much pda and stuff) specially around his friends. My question is this weekend he has a get together at his house & he told me his friends are flying from out of town. Initially I had family plans for this weekend & told him to do his thing. But earlier this week my weekend freed up for a day & i want to go to his party but he didn’t want me to …cont

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

My wife refuses to download TikTok and just looks at Youtube's knockoff version "Shorts" She will then send me youtube links instead of TikTok links. Surely this is sufficient grounds for divorce?

I dumped my gf of 1 yr bcz I started to feel less attracted to her. Plus all my fam ws also telling me that we look good as a couple.If I didn’t dump her, next step would hv been marriage. cntd.

I can’t live with my spouse anymore and I think the feeling is mutual. We have kids (<10yrs) and I would hate to not be able to see them everyday. I’m afraid of the negative impact on the kids of this separation/divorce. Long term I don’t know what the solution is. Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like the biggest failure in the world.

My boyfriend is not the best at providing emotional support. I’m pretty sure a lot of it stems from him not being able to fully express his emotions when he was younger. Does this mean our relationship is doomed or is there anything we can do to work on this? I just want to feel supported and that he is there for me.