My husband has a hard time predicting how he will react to a situation in the future. He says he will be cool with a situation and then once we are in the situation, he’s very upset and I end up (cont

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Having to tweak my course of action to diminish his frustration. An example would be how he said he loves a power woman and supports my career to the fullest even if it means I have to work insane hours. BCG has been an incredible amount of hours for me and his love language being quality time, he’s always in a sour mood that I’m not available as much as I was in my last 9-5 job. This sort of situation keeps happening in our marriage and now I don’t even know how to make decisions about the future with him bc I feel like I can’t trust what he says about what he needs and what he would like because he doesn’t actually know what he needs. I’m so lost and frustrated

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This sounds so, so tough. I agree, talk to a therapist to help work out together how he can better understand and communicate his needs. You also need to be open, though, to maybe working a little less to meet his needs as well, if that’s what it takes (if that’s what you learn together through counseling). Your marriage will/should outlast your job. Not to say you need to only work 9-5, of course. Just be open to compromise as part of marriage counseling.

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