My husband is very sweet but recently complains I spend too much time during weekend study coding. What should I do?

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No offense but how tf are we supposed to answer this

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Not kidding. Serious topics for me. Family revolution here almost.

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Hi☺️ I am familar with Python, C++, C, Java, and software like Matlab and SAS, and used them in a few project before and I am a girl too. Want to give a few suggestion. If you don’t have project on hand, reading books and practice those small example will be really slow. Find a project, and look what might be useful for that project, build it and debug, you will learn much faster. And next time you two arguing about studying you can tell him I am working, caz you really have a project to do.

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On a similar note - if you’re looking to go into tax technology and haven’t already connected with people on the team(s) you’re interested in joining, I’d recommend getting a few folks’ input on what to learn and maybe project ideas that will help you learn the relevant skills for the jobs they think will be hiring.

What are you studying for do you have a test coming up? If it’s for leisure maybe have dedicated hours to your studying say 8-12 and the afternoons and evenings are for you to spend time with your spouse.

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Yes, prob should do more outdoor activities during weekends. Thank you.

Don't spend too much time coding

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