My last day at my super toxic biglaw firm was Friday. Lateraling to a firm that seems to have a much better culture. I feel so free, but I also feel bad for my friends who are still stuck in that toxic place.

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Congrats! What firm was this so we can all avoid 🤣

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Get them to lateral over after you and collect that referral $$$!

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No one is stuck anywhere - if they want to get out, they know what to do. Congratulations!

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