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My little girl now has an option of returning to school in-person through her spring break. My spouse is a high risk + extra careful when it comes to all things pandemic. I'm worried about my little kid's lost year & want her to go to school & interact with her friends, learn, etc. She's been home since March. Schools are being extra careful, maintaining all precautions, etc. But I can't convince my spouse to agree to this. Anyone else in a similar situation?

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I think your spouse being high risk is the tough part here... maybe better safe than sorry in this situation? The kids being home is super tough, I know! Kids are pretty resilient though and hopefully with the vaccine there is light at the end of the tunnel.

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