My manger reached out to my counselor regarding my performance expressing he is not happy with me. I thought I was trying my best past couple of weeks but just realized he is not happy with my work. How can I improve? This is the first time I have not performed well. I don’t have a strong personality but if asked I am the kind of person who will go out of the way to get things done. How should I improve? I hate that I suck at PM work. Experiencing a lot of anxiety

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I’d set up a 1:1 with your manager to get an understanding of their feedback and more importantly, come up with an action plan to course correct together. Have a similar conversation with your counselor so that all three of you are on the same page. You want to demonstrate your willingness to act on feedback and validate that the feedback is actionable.

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Find an ally. Who does this manager like and have them give you tips/help you out if they’re willing.

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I really want to improve. I just have difficulty communicating how I feel and end over thinking everything

I mean I can’t stop thinking about it. Its probably going to be on my mind the entire time for the weekend. I thinking of starting work early to make sure I don’t mess anything up.

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