My married 🐠 friends: have you been struggling and having fights on ridiculous issues through lockdown and WFH. We are incredibly blessed, absolutely love each other. In fact, I can safely say I couldn’t have got a more supportive and better wife. Have two healthy and sweet kids and secure jobs etc. Simply put, we have no excuse to be fighting and yet we do just that. And we both feel terrible after it happens. Is this just frustration from lockdown. Have any of you experienced similar problems

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Definitely having a similar experience....everyone needs space and we arnt getting enough of it.

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Two words: couples therapy

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Lockdown is over … step outside for a breather

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Yes and we both are in therapy (individual and not couples therapy - but you can try either). It has helped a lot! It may or may not be the lockdown. Therapy will help you both organize your thoughts.

I think WFH isn’t healthy. We are all in each others way. But this isn’t ending soon so therapy will help you figure out how to deal with this new norm

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Thanks all for your perspective. I am going to try doing some outdoor activities alone as a starting point. Possibly couples therapy if it done not improve.

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lol....

Even nature vacations help. If you go together, try going on walks or hikes separately.

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