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My mom died 6 years ago. For some reason this is the hardest Mother’s Day. Previous years didn’t really affect me as much.

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I’m sorry ♥️♥️♥️

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Sending lots of love your way. Grief can come in funny waves. Just remember not to put pressure on yourself to do anything but feel your feelings, even (or especially) when it hurts.

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I’m so sorry!! Spend some time this week to honor her.

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big hugs to you OP! 🤗🤗🥰

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I know the feeling OP. In my experience, I feel differently every year. My advice for next year: stay off social and fill your day as much as you can. My advice for this evening: put something funny on or dance party.

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That’s the impact that mothers can have. Sorry to hear about that.

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