My old side piece and I have been over for a minute now. It was fun until we fell for each other. We are both 'happy'in our current relationships. We took a break from talking, it seemed like we were both still sensitive about the past and still have love for each other. Recently, he reached out and voiced that he wants to talk more. He video chat me, and now texts frequently. But he only texts when he's at work or in his car, when his girlfriend isn't around. Does this mean anything?

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Yes, it means he wants your attention when it’s convenient for him and likely cheating on his gf (assuming they’re not open).

Been here, run. Just set boundaries. I did this with a person once and it got me confused and, even though I didn’t cheat, my heart and head were confused for a while. The other guy would never commit, and he really never chose me. Would entertain the hell out of me and promise the future. It was a game. He sent me a few messages and I thought hard on it but decided to run.

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