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No you’re not. I see where you’re coming from. He should not treat you like that. We don’t know all the details obviously, but seems like your husband is also looking for a different kind of support? Maybe ask him what he needs you to do to feel supported.
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It sounds to me like you are in a relationship with a gigantic baby.
He realizes that their happiness or lack of seriously impedes his. It’s a pattern that when these issues come up, he is rude to me if I make a suggestion that he does not like or doesn’t think I should have made. He will say things that insinuate it is not my place or that I or the comment/suggestion was stupid or idiotic without much logic. I’m never pushy. Most recently during a crisis, he told me not to give advice if I’m not asked. At this point after several years of the same pattern, I told him that though I understand that he is stressed, I did not appreciate how he was talking to me. He essentially said ok and I didn’t text him again. The next morning he says I wasn’t there for him and that he doesn’t want someone like me by his side when he’s at his darkest points. Now I am questioning if I seriously messed up. Am I an asshole for finally creating that boundary?