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The resentment doesn’t go away until your partner lands a job on their own and starts fresh. I know it’s hard, but you need to cut the cord


Sorry to hear OP You could look elsewhere with him / her. That’s what my partner and I have always done. Yet we aren’t CD level, so that probably changes things


Feel bad but ask yourself why and use it as moment of self reflection. Might have happened for a good reason


Thanks it’s such a bummer. No matter how I try to be upbeat or turn things around even in a practical non-Pollyanna way it’s still just nastiness. It was clearly calculated (he’d be late etc) but getting the brunt of resentment sucks. I keep trying to help them because I feel bad. “What if it had been me” kinda stuff...see this is why sociopaths do so well compared to me.


No matter how many leads I try to send their way or how nice I try to be I feel the communication back is snarky, negative- sucks because we’d worked together a while...totally understand they’re upset but it’s not my fault - any advice?

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