My partner has a great body frame but on the lanky side. I’ve never said anything about liking muscles more but he’s found all the guys I’ve talked to in the past and now jokes that he’s going to beef up. I always tell him I love his body and stop comparing ( which I do. He has a nice physique) but I secretly would love to see him with thick muscles 🙊

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“I love his body”

“I wish he had muscles”

Woman, pick one

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Then encourage it positively, but you should be ready to match the effort and join him in the journey.

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Make going to the gym together a regular habit. OP could just stretch, sauna, do yoga, cardio whatever. But habits + accountability = results

“He’s found all the guys I’ve talked to in the past”… we’re just glossing over that?

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I mean, yeah. I love muscles. But my man is WAAAAAY better is so many ways

“Hahhaa okay, I’ll hit the gym with you!”

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Go lift with your man. I’m pretty sure he has some thoughts on you doing squats.

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Wow , working out together is a way to go

Love men with muscles

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Yeah I love the beef. But in the long term he can run for days and is super healthy and I value that so much more! I just had to let out my confession lol

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Harder to obtain for lanky guys, may not be in his ability. Gotta eat a lot and compound lifts fam

Interestingly enough lifting actually damages your muscle fibers and breaks down muscle where in reality the real muscle gain comes from the recovery - food/sleep. Of course the only way to break down muscle fibers is to challenge and overload your muscles

Just tell him and be done wit it

So, you like them thick?😉 He does too

I am thick haha. We went on a 6 mile run today bc I’m trying to get back to my slim-thick days haha. We just have totally different body types.

Does he have chicken legs though?

Ladies, what’s the ideal build on your mans?

I get it but for me it’s not just the muscles it the beefy thickk guys 🤤. That’s hard if not impossible for lanky guys

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