My partner is suffering from really bad depression and anxiety and it's so hard to concentrate on work when my home life is what needs the most attention. Wish I could take time off to help make him better.

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Sorry, that sounds hard 😢

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You can't make him better. He has to want to do it and do the work. Do take some time to make sure he knows you are cheering him on, of help him find help. But he needs to do the work themselves. Hugs to you both

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We are in the same boat. My wife hasn't worked for a few years now as we're dealing with it. It's hard - but stay strong.

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Same... my boyfriend has depression too. I’m so scared to ask about how he’s feeling because if he said he’s not feeling well I can’t convcentrate at work at all. To be honest it’s been difficult ... I cry a lot at work because of this

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Stop wish, and take those actions necessarily immediately to being able to help him.

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