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Good luck, we always tried to alternate one nuts schedule and one 9-5 until they were older.
There is no easy answer unfortunately,
In normal times, get your kids into little league/soccer etc. that gave us a local support group of parents all with the same challenges. We all covered for each other and we’re there to help each other when things were crazy. Ie away for a conference for a week or something.

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