My “possibly toxic” trait is I don’t want to be helped. We bought our house with my husband and never got a cent from anyone and we furnished it ourselves. Now I’m pregnant i don’t really want gifts. We have already bought 70% for our baby and i just don’t want gifts although fam and friends are keen to gift. Am i petty?

Any women here struggle with hemmroids after a vaginal birth?

If so, did you see a colorectal surgeon to get them tied or remediated after pregnancy? I am sure they are here because I am pregnant and had them bad on first pregnancy around 32 weeks.

Is there anything you did for your husband before your first child to make him feel special? He’s been so supportive and helpful for my pregnancy, I want to do something to celebrate him too.

Where can I join? Any suggestions or reviews?
4YOE - JAVA SOFTWARE ENGINEER
Here are the offers:
EPAM Anywhere - 18 LPA + 0.6 LPA (JB)
HCL Technologies - 20 LPA (2lpa variable)
Capco (WIPRO CHILD COMPANY) - 20.5 LPA + 2 LPA (JB)
Infosys - in process
STL - Sterlite Technologies Limited - in process
Mindtree - in process
Capgemini - in process
Tech Mahindra - in process

Please give the reviews about this asap. Thanks in advance.

Thoughts on why A&E and Mother both opened Berlin offices this year? Is it due to more business in the mainland or client budgets leaving the UK?

Is it easier to get a job in a new agency that is under the same parent company?

I got opportunities from-
Dassault Systemes
Bentley Systemes
Cerner

I was thinking to join @Dassault but after some research I found that many people are leaving the organization and the reviews are not so good which it used to be. (My friend is working in DS and I got to know that the policies are not good and organization is forcing people to come to office and they are not easy to adopt).

Also there is some discrepancy going on. Need your suggestion.
My 2nd option is to go with Cerner.

AOS /AP/485 processing is going on with EB2 to EB3 downgrade. Haven’t received any receipt yet since filed in late Oct.
Need to go to India to care for parent for several weeks. I know AP gets cancelled, but what happens to rest of the processes if USCIS calls for finger prints or interview and I cannot attend? TIA.
Immi team isn’t so responsive, so asking for general info here.

Looking for birthday dinner recs. My wife and I used to be huge foodies pre-pandemic/baby, and this is first time we’ve eaten out in a while. Looking for newish spot (within last 2 years) and spacious outdoor seating. Thanks in advance!

I love this guy but my parents don’t want me to be with him. I haven’t had a good relationship with my mother ever but I can’t hurt my father like that. I just don’t have it in me. My mother (cont)

Trigger warning since i know it can be a sensitive topic RE: fertility. I am 29, husband is 28. as more time goes on, i can see myself as a mother and the baby fever has been growing! Got my fertility tested - AMH 2 and FSH 5.9… i know my AMH isnt the highest already and it’ll only go down with time. Any advice for what to do? I dont want to rush into motherhood but i also worry about waiting too long and then having issues. Any mothers here who can guide?

I'm 18+4 weeks pregnant. I'm worried about weight gain - specifically too little weight. Only gained about 5 lbs in total, and for the last 2 weeks nothing at all.

Any words of advice or encouragement? Worried about baby as I hear not gaining enough weight is way way worse than gaining too much. Or am I making a big deal out of nothing?

My agency in nyc is looking for a 3-4 month backfill account person or producer for maternity leave coverage starting mid feb/March. Must have digital exp and 5-10 yrs client facing exp. DM me!

Any recommendations for an ob-gyn or tips for finding one on short notice in Vancouver? Friend who is trying to get pregnant just moved there from the US and is having a hard time finding someone! TIA!

Ladies, I commend all of you who are pregnant and lawyering on the daily! I am 10 weeks pregnant and haven’t been working much since I left my firm in March. I tell my husband every day “IDK how anyone is pregnant and practicing law at the same time.” After a morning in court last month I was totally out of commission for the day. If you are still working as a lawyer full time and growing a human it is something to be proud of!

I had *just* gotten back into running (2 weeks) when I found out I’m pregnant! Great news, but would you keep running? Doctor says it’s up to me.

Do you accept parent requests on social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc...) what have your experiences been like and does your district have rules about it?

Hello! Any advice for a soon to be first time mom? I read somewhere that we need to take four months of maternity leave before the baby is due. Is that true? Going to reach out to PML soon and then HR. Thanks!

Hi Everyone,

I just need some advice.
My father passed away a few months back and I am yet to obtain the legal heir certificate. Given the ITR deadline is near, should I just file his ITR from his account or is there any other option?

Thanks in advance

Do people coordinate play dates with colleagues that have kids around the same age? Trying to find alternatives to happy hour...

Currently a Project Manager trying to pivot into Product Management. Any advice on what I can do to strengthen my skillset? Should I get a certification?

Woah did the 114060 Sub just shoot up in value?

My official title in my previous company was Engineer for four years but 3 years of that, I was doing more on the project management role. How should I write this on my resume? Should I put one PM and one Engineer role even though my official title is only Engineer? I'm leaning towards looking for PM job.

Today just sucked. Sure am ready for this week off.

I was working as a level 3 employee at Amazon Hyderabad, Looking for a level 4 position as I had to resign due to some personal reasons.
If anyone can help me with the level 4 position as now I can only apply for level 4 roles

Any take on culture of MS Menlo?

How does the firm treat uber charge reimbursement during surging?

I am a senior digital marketing student currently weighing my options for a job out of school. My past experience had been in a variety of different areas in the marketing field however I am very interested in product management. Is it possible for someone in this position to get into a product management role post grad?

How much time does Wipro take to release the offer letter?. Hr had told me that he is waiting for the BU head approval to release the offer letter but haven't got it yet.

Multi cloud architect. Might this be a new role gaining speed here pretty soon? Distribute data lakes and compute resources across platforms so as to not get locked in, duplicate data or resources while playing to each clouds advantage. What’s the most effective way to learn the nuances of all the clouds?

I have United 1K until Jan 2021. If I status match to Delta / AA for the rest of 2021 then repeat for the other airline for 2022, can I essentially have that tier of status for three years?

Hotel gave me a key for someone else’s room due to a mix up and the person was in the room when I opened the door. How many points? Room was 17,500/night

Hello fishes, Apart from big4s, any openings in strategy and or CDD roles? Also looking for visa sponsorship.

Whai is Your side hustle?

Job market is 🔥 🔥 🔥 . Apply now. Demand is high and supply weak (holidays + waiting for bonus). Good luck!

Any women here struggle with hemmroids after a vaginal birth?

If so, did you see a colorectal surgeon to get them tied or remediated after pregnancy? I am sure they are here because I am pregnant and had them bad on first pregnancy around 32 weeks.

Is there anything you did for your husband before your first child to make him feel special? He’s been so supportive and helpful for my pregnancy, I want to do something to celebrate him too.

Has anyone done CVS or/and Amniocentesis? How painful? Thanks!

has anyone else experienced an early 2nd tri loss? i feel so lonely and defeated right now after learning the news today. this was our first pregnancy.

Anyone experience exhaustion setting in at the end of second trimester? First trimester came with exhaustion like I have never experienced before and then most of second trimester has been more or less back to normal energy levels. Currently at 26 weeks and have been totally dragging for the past week or more. Does anyone have tips for getting through this?

I'm 18+4 weeks pregnant. I'm worried about weight gain - specifically too little weight. Only gained about 5 lbs in total, and for the last 2 weeks nothing at all.

Any words of advice or encouragement? Worried about baby as I hear not gaining enough weight is way way worse than gaining too much. Or am I making a big deal out of nothing?

Hi everyone,
So I had my NIPT and NT scans last week and I’ve been getting pieces of the results back from my doctor in the patient portal. All seems okay but I’m a bit confused. Does anyone know if FirstScreen is the same thing as NIPT? I was under the impression that NIPT was in 90th percent of certainty for Down syndrome but the result we got, labeled FirstScreen indicate 83% certainty so I’m confused if there are more results coming? I messaged the doctor but haven’t heard back yet.

I'm not showing yet, but the idea of people touching my belly in the future freaks me out. Is there a way to handle unwanted touching (without being rude)?

Considering how intensely the OB office said I need my blood drawn at exactly 1 hour after glucose drink, would a 4 min blood draw delay skew my results? Not finding any current research.

I had *just* gotten back into running (2 weeks) when I found out I’m pregnant! Great news, but would you keep running? Doctor says it’s up to me.

In my first trimester, can I get a microneedling with PRP?

I’m only 7 weeks and I haven’t been sleeping well for the last 3 weeks. I go to pee every couple hours and I can’t find a comfortable position to sleep. I’m a stomach sleeper and although I’m still able to sleep on my stomach, my boobs are sore and it hurts. Sleeping on my sides is uncomfortable and I’m trying to not sleep on my back. Anyone going through the same thing? Has anything helped? I feel like it’s too early to buy a pregnancy pillow 🥲

My diet consists of peanut m&ms and chicken nuggets. Send help 😂

Trying not to be reactive here until my doctor calls, but… obviously can’t help it. My blood test today (28w) came back with results that are worrying me. My RBC and HCT are low (below the standard range) which would indicate slight anemia, but ferritin came back totally normal. This alone wouldn’t cause me too much concern, except that I have counts for NRBC, which seems like a bigger problem. Has anyone else gone through this?

Anyone got fever or chills after second vaccine shot ? How did you deal with it? Tylenol?

Just Venting : So , I am 5W4D pregnant from our fifth FET. Started spotting like light brown since yesterday and also been cramping back pain and lower abdomen. I am also feeling wet down there looks like more discharge. Called my RE and he asked me to rest with my legs elevated. I am worried now though doctor assured it’s all okay unless I am bleeding .

Does anyone else have little pulses in their belly? I’m 23w, my provider said it’s just the additional blood flow but it’s just a weird feeling.