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My project is becoming so stressful (mainly due to an extremely difficult, disrespectful PM, despite lovely clients) that I’ve been having anxiety. I can’t fall asleep. Is it justified to roll off?

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I’ve been thinking of just using the diplomatic excuses of “going to a project that’s more aligned to my career goals.” (Currently in the progress of finding other projects I could jump ship to). I’ve been on my current proj for 8 months. I’ve tried talking with said PM (not receptive), also to my CC (it’s going nowhere). So really hoping rolling off for the sake of my mental health won’t be detrimental to me review-wise.

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