My significant other who is older than me moved from east coast to Las Vegas while I was in college for a consulting opportunity. It has not been 3+ years of doing long distance because I do not want to live there. He went and bought a house against my wishes and just expects that I should make the sacrifice to move since he is really happy there but I don’t see myself being happy there. Idk what to do 😭 any advice 🥺

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Try not to see it as a negative thing that he bought a house, it could be a good financial investment even if he doesn’t continue to live there. Have you gone to visit before or stayed there for some time?

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I have spent time there but I absolutely hate the extreme heat, and I don’t love the career opportunities, education system, or that the main draw are the strips, casinos, and taverns. There is the investment piece which has potential...but he has no intention of moving for at least 1-2 years so it feels like that possibility of moving is more like a stretch than something with a hard deadline that would actually happen

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