My sister’s boyfriend will post Instagram stories with him getting 1:1 cocktails or coffee with other girls. I’ve seen this three times in the past 3-4 months. Would you say anything to your sibling? i don’t want to say anything since I think she’d react with denial that it’s weird

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I mean he’s not hiding it so clearly she’s cool with it? Maybe it’s an open relationship?

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Maybe it’s just a matter of the boyfriend not giving OP’s sister photo cred?

Because men and women can't get coffee or a drink platonically?

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I think she should get rid of him cuz he posts instagram stories, period.

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Why can’t he have female friends? Is she not allowed to have male friends? That’s way more concerning.

Is your sister not friends with him on Instagram?

I think it’s good to note it for concern especially if it’s a new thing / recent change to past behaviour. Better safe than sorry

IMO- coffee could be with work colleagues, so I wouldn't do too much about that. But what is the context of these cocktails/other pics? Is he traveling for work or with a group of friends? Is this happening in the city they live in? Does your sister see these stories on IG?

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