My son is three months old and our nanny is starting in January. I’m already anxious that my baby will start favoring her over me once I start working (and I work a lot). I plan to wfh at least 3 times a week, and to play with him when 1-2 times and during lunch during the day, but don’t want to annoy the nanny either. I’m also worried he won’t be spending enough time with dad. Any advice?

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Mama will always be special to baby. Also you’ll have to trial the 1-2 play breaks per day, that could cause more stress than bonding to have 3 different times you say goodbye. Also dad will get his time to shine in toddlerhood, don’t worry 😉

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Oh yeah if your baby is like mine, you gotta hide until the work day is over. Coming and going adds so much drama.

Your next post is going to be “help! How do I work from home while hiding from my baby that’s obsessed with me” 😆❤️

My husband is a stay at home dad and my kids dive out of his arms when I walk in the room.

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Totally! My twin boys are obsessed with me. I had to go into the office everyday during COVID to hide from them. There’s nothing like mom!

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You’re the only mom your son will ever have. A nanny can’t replace that special role, so no worries there. And, what a wonderful gift to your baby AND to you, if your nanny and your son bond like family.

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These comments make me feel so much better. Thank you all

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This is going to be a non issue :) Just try to relax and enjoy the time with the baby. Spend time with him and dad as a family and encourage them to get out alone on the weekends (even if it’s just a Starbucks run to let you sleep in a bit).

Same.

He won’t favor anyone over mama. My toddler spent the first 18 months with nannies and grandparents before COVID lockdowns planted me at home. No issues.

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