My therapist broke up with me 😢

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It’s ok. Happens. My therapist gave up on me too. They just said I don’t think this is working. It hurt me quite a bit.

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Don't look at it as they gave up. Sometimes it's not a good fit. Sometimes there's something that doesn't work for them. They're human too.

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Are you gonna find a new one?

Yes

Why did therapist do that ?

I guess better for both then. A lot of therapist even refuses to take me on lol.

I can’t speak for therapists but I can speak to credentialed coaches. We have an ethical guideline that we are to remain alert to indications that there might be a shift in the value received from the coaching relationship. If so, we must make a change in the relationship or encourage the Client to seek another coach, seek another professional or use a different resource.
While it may sting, trust you’re being rerouted to something more helpful to you.

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