My wife called me a waste of space tonight.

It’s over, isn’t it?

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Those are mean words. Cheat on her with a younger woman

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D2, this is not always true. Some people are a waste of space. But telling someone this during a fight is abusive.

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I think that's a pretty light rebuke in the grand scheme of things, and if that's one of the worst things she's ever said to you, you're a lucky married person!

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EY1 I agree seems pretty tame

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She just on her period

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^ this. It's like men who sexually assault women and blame it on their testosterone surge or their 'urges'. Deal with your hormones like a f**ing adult man or woman

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You better leave.

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Damn. Where did respect go?

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Did you eat her leftovers without asking first?

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It think it's over, not because what she called you, but because you're asking us instead of her. I'm not blaming you, I'm saying that if you don't even care to go to talk to her, that's a good sign you two are not in a good place.

Now, being more cynical, what did you do?

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I don’t know you, obviously. But whatever it is that you did, you don’t deserve that level of emotional + verbal abuse. Sending good vibes your way and I hope things get better 💕

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M2 I genuinely don't think it's a big deal that would probably be the kindest I was called in a fight. Everyone on here is acting like she said some beyond the pale terrible thing to him. There's no way you all never get called way worse than that in a fight. That is such a pg mild insult

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50% of people reading this are like “errrr my spouse and I say that stuff all the time”.

The other 50% are like “it’s done I’m sorry respect has gone”.

Am I right?

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Yall make marriage sound awful on this app

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Kinda is, unless it's not.

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That’s awful to say to anyone, let alone someone you purportedly care about. I’m sorry, OP.

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Why did she say that?

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Waste even more space as pay back

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You gonna take that?

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Call her a dumb broad. That should do the trick.

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Thanks ? …

😔

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I would ignore anyone trying to rationalize this behavior. I don’t know your situation but in any respectful, healthy relationship things like this are not said.

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I couldn’t imagine saying something that hurtful to my husband. If you want the relationship to work, maybe wait until tempers have cooled down and talk to her about how hurtful her words are. It sounds like there might be ways for you to “argue” better. My husband and I might get frustrated and occasionally raise our voices - but we never insult the other person and we are never physical with each other. Those are the boundaries, and it sounds like maybe you need some within your relationship.

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Not insulting each other and not getting physical with each other isn’t realistic??

I don’t understand why it wouldn’t be… I’m honestly shocked. Married for 10 years, together for 12, and it’s never been a problem for us. We love and respect each other above everything.

Lmao. I make fun of my husband and he makes fun of me all the time but in a joking way. Was she joking?? It could be half joking? Do you contribute to chores or tend to her needs?

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Ooof then… she sounds fed up with the current situation. Try talking to her more and figure out if there’s anything else she expects. Cuz for real we have a lot of expectations that we don’t always say up front lol. Or whenever you can take the kids out to do things or take her out. I have a one year old and sometimes I just wanna be alone and do what I wanna do in peace and quiet.

Thats cute.

My wife once said “I wish you were dead” in anger (post-partum).

She loves me very much, for the record

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