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Why don’t you hire a cook right now just to help your wife it would take her half the time to cook food. Minimise her exposure to your family. Start cooking food on your floor and give it to your parents on whichever floor they are. Doesn’t feel rude to me.
@nokia cook would just help in cutting chopping preparation of dough etc. wife can do the actual cooking. This would save a lot of time for her and they can spend more time together.
Your elder bro dont have a wife?
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Move to a separate house, if you want long term peace. Otherwise in a few months your wife will co crazy & then god save your marriage!
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My wife goes downstairs to make lunch and dinner, and other small stuff. Calculating 6 hrs daily.
But our home Atmosphere is unbearable. She can't listen everyday fighting of my parents.
She recently had miscarriage and she is vulnerable currently.
We have decided from below options:
1) I want to have cook food on first floor and give food to parents on second floor. But father age is 70 and mother's is 63 with knee issue. they cant come upstairs everytime and giving food to them downstairs after making it is quite the only option but it is rude.
2) other option is we can go to a rented place and stay there for some time. And i can say that my company has called me office in other city. They won't know. I will hire a cook for parents for 1 time and 1 time mother will make the food.
What should I do? I just want to save my wife and make her always happy. I don't want toxicity for her.
Kindly provide other options also.
You just want to save your wife and always make her happy😊
Why are your parents fighting always?is there something you can solve? Or is their love language is fight ?
Bro please hire a cook for two times to your home and deliver food everyday down, so that your wife and parents meeting time will be low, it won't be rude.. it's much better than moving to a different place.
Option 2 is better.
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Agreed! Option 2
Continuing will lead to worsening mental health and relationship breakdown. Move out, get maid, get caregiver if needed and split expenses with bro. DO NOT BIRTH A CHILD if you're gonna live in the same house.
Last time I checked I still had a d*ck.
Your wife is there to care you not your parents and taking care of your parents is a mercy.
Seriously..m taken aback by mercy vichaar