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Need advice: was talking to this hinge guy for nearly 2 months ( only 2 physical dates and numerous long phone calls). Complimented me endlessly, told me he liked me etc. Well, this weekend he canceled our 3rd date twice in a row because he was sick. I haven’t heard from him since cancelation. I checked his hinge profile and he updated his location to NYC from the town we live in hundreds of miles away. Im gutted. What would u do? I know its early, pls dont shame me :(

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He's gone. Bye. You're better than whatever that is.

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Stop placing so much value on words - this includes compliments, texts, messages and phone calls. Look at the actions and if they don’t line up with the words then leave. You didn’t know him. You had an idea of him based on what he shared with you, which may or may not have been crafted to win you over and get your attention/time/body/an ego boost.

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Sounds like he’s a lovebomber, early signs for psychopaths. You dodged a bullet, girl! Put yourself back on hinge and find someone who’s worthy of your attention, queen!

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Sorry girl. He's keeping his options open/may not be looking for something serious :( I'd stop reaching out to him as to not look desperate. brush this off queen! 💜

Unmatch, thank u next

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