need some advice! so my fiancé and I asked his sister to be in our wedding party so we wouldn’t cause any rifts. She is older and still not married (which is completely fine!). However she is getting jealous and starting to ruin our wedding planning experience. We can’t uninvite her now but I don’t know how to handle her. I’m really close with all my other bridesmaids and I thought it would be easier to just keep her out of the loop until the time comes for the wedding and Bach?

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