Never cared if the guys I talked to were “social butterflies”— I loved that about them. Last guy I talked to had a very good reputation amongst girls because of how extroverted he was and willing to help them. I found out later it was because he enjoyed flirting with them despite having a girlfriend & loved the attention. He would text them and keep in touch. I had to stop talking to him because I feared he would do this to me again if we started dating & now have trust issues. Hate this 😭

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My husband is a social butterfly. When he was single it was definitely more flirting with everyone (hey that’s how he got me), but now it’s just annoying. Like no I don’t want to talk to everyone we see, can’t you ever just blend in with the crowd and not be noticed?!?

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I dated a guy exactly like this! I always questioned the relationship because I’d find that he’d go behind my back and would flirt with girls. Now I’m with someone who is still social and can have conversations with people and in large groups, but who I think is more of an introvert and enjoys his time alone. Let me tell ya, I feel WAY better about it and have absolutely no doubt in my mind about him flirting with others. I definitely think there are lots of men who can be “social butterflies” and be 100% trustworthy, but after having those experiences I had doubts as well.

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This sounds like pipeline management - we are all consultants, aren’t we?

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